I'm a librarian. I hear music, even when it's not being played. I used to work at a comic book store, and it still informs my life. I won once on JEOPARDY! - ditto.
John Michael Montgomery, Alan Jackson, Brooks & Dunn
Here are the 1995 #1 Hot Country Singles and Tracks. Joel Whitburn’s Hot Country Songs contains information about chart methodology.
“For decades, Billboard’s country singles charts were compiled by playlists reported by radio stations and sales reports reported by stores. These airplays and sales reports established the weekly rankings…
“On January 20, 1990, Billboard began basing the charts entirely on airplay with information gathered by the Nielsen Broadcast Data systems, a subsidiary of Billboard that electronically monitored actual radio airplay… These monitors can identify each song played by an encoded audio fingerprint.
“On December 5, 1992, Billboard began compiling the country singles charts strictly on the number of detections or plays registered by each song.
Check Yes or No -George Strait, four weeks at #1. As you may know, Strait has been selected for the Kennedy Center Honors in 2025. Someone gave me one of his compilation CDs, the 1991 Ten Strait Hits.
I Can Love You Like That – John Michael Montgomery, three weeks at #1. This song I know! I own a version by All-4-One. Some music pundit noted at the time that this convergence meant that the genres were essentially meaningless.
Among the interesting things I receive because I have a blog is this recent email about a piano: “I hope this message finds you well. A friend of mine is giving away her late husband’s Yamaha Piano to an instrument lover. This instrument holds profound sentimental value for her, and she’d love it for it to find a new home with someone who’ll cherish it as much as her late husband did. She’d be delighted to share its history, condition, or other details if you’re curious. Thank you for considering this. Any help or advice is appreciated.”
It is astounding how many people are trying to unload what had been in the heart of the household. Please think of the last three minutes of It’s A Wonderful Life. Fillyjonk noted,” I knew people growing up who had pianos or guitars or other instruments, and they played for their own or their family’s entertainment.” She links to an on-point video.
When I was growing up, we had an upright piano at home. Though no one could really master it, we all noodled around, playing Chopsticks and the like. My maternal grandmother also had a piano; my father is sitting on the piano bench. The one year I took piano lessons, I practiced more at Grandma’s because it was a better instrument.
“For a long time, the piano was one of the first instruments U.S. children learned to play, but in 2025, fewer people are buying pianos for their homes. CBS Saturday Morning discovers why decreased sales might not be a bad thing.”
Sales
According to the Blue Book of Pianos, piano sales were estimated to be as high as 306,984 annually in 1925 for a population of about 116 million people. In 2024, per the Music Trades Corporation’s Music Industry Census, it was 17,294 pianos annually in a population of 340 million.
Hannah Beckett, a piano technician in northern Virginia, notes the increased popularity of alternatives. “‘At least a digital piano is going to have accurate sounds and notes, the keys are going to go up and down,’ she explains, a problem that older acoustic pianos can pose for beginners.’
“Beckett is optimistic about the future of playing the instrument.
“‘At some point, you’re going to start looking for musicality, for emotional expression, for shaping phrasing, for some of the things more advanced musicians are interested in,” she says hopefully, adding, ‘we’re going to see a resurgence of piano playing. I think we’re all kind of weary of screens at this point.'”
The song that makes me cry is “A LOT OF MUSIC MAKES ME CRY,“ and it’s become more frequent over time. Sad songs such as these can be tied to failed romance. Also in the category is “Harvest Moon” by Neil Young. A friend was playing that song by Cassandra Wilson and wondered if it made me feel down; no, it’s the specific cadence of the original.
Lullabye by Billy Joel, especially after I heard an a cappella group from Binghamton, NY perform it c. 1995. It’s the bridge.
Silent Eyes by Paul Simon. The Boxer by Simon and Garfunkel; see the description here. Biko by Peter Gabriel, specifically at the end. There are quite a few songs.
I wrote here about my mom in 2016, five years after she died: “I went to church [back in Albany] that last Sunday of the month when we sang Lift Every Voice and Sing, which I’ve sung for years. But I can barely get through it anymore without crying, and it started that day when I knew, profoundly, that my mom, and my last living ancestor, was gone.”
There’s a Lenten hymn called “Ah, Holy Jesus.” The second verse ends with “I crucified You.” It always makes me verklempt.
But it doesn’t always have to be sad. Lots of organ music affects me; it often offers power chords at the end. I’m a sucker for the very last, very high note Julie Andrews sings in Do-Re-Mi from The Sound of Music. Or the growl by Paul Carrack in Squeeze’s Tempted. The modulation in She’s Gone by Hall and Oates; that song won me $48. There are a slew of them. But they don’t always affect me the same way every time.
The song I’d like played at my funeral: Coincidentally, in the spring of 2025, folks in our adult education class at church talked about what music, scripture, etc., the participants would like to have at their funerals. I wasn’t there because the choir rehearses at the same time.
If you want to play music in the lead-up to my funeral, I’d suggest the Barber adagio or Raindrop Prelude by Chopin. The Chopin begins and ends simply, but the middle (the inverse pedal point section) is the stormy section.
At the beginning, I’d love to have a recording of My Prayer by the Beach Boys. It’s not very long but effective.
I want someone to sing the response to Psalm 29, the arrangement by Hal Hopson, as one of the scripture pieces, along with readings of Psalm 150 and Matthew 25:34-40.
Hymns
Pick some hymns with harmonization; I don’t want a bunch of boring unison singing. Here are some options from a previous Presbyterian hymnal. They are in page order, not by any preference:
Holy, Holy, Holy (Nicaea)—I now know the blessed Trinity refers to God’s manifestations, but it evokes in me my first church in Binghamton (Trinity AME Zion) and in Albany (Trinity United Methodist). And it’s the first hymn in what a late ex-girlfriend used to refer to as the “real Methosdist hymnal.”
It Is Well With My Soul (Ville Du Havre) – sung at several Trinity UMC funerals
God of the Ages, Whose Almighty Hand (National Hymn). I always loved the trumpet opening. We sang some version of this in elementary school around Thanksgiving.
Immortal, Invisible, God Only Wise (St. Denio)
Guide Me, Oh Thou Great Jehovah (Cwm Rhondda)- I always loved the bass vocal flourish in the last line. It reminds me of someone specific.
How Firm A Foundation (Foundation)
My Hope Is Built On Nothing Less (Sold Rock)
O Love That Wilt Not Let Me Go (St. Margaret)
Precious Lord (Precious Lord)
Lord, You Give the Great Commission (Abbot’s Leigh) – this has a great bass line.
The Church’s One Foundation (Aurelia) – I’m a sucker for old Wesleyan hymns
Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Theee (Hymn To Joy) – roll over, Beethoven
For The Beauty of the Earth (Dix)
When Morning Gilds The Skies (Laudes Domini)
And in the end
Near the end, I want God Be With You Till We Meet Again (Randolph) or Now The Day Is Over (Merrial), and most importantly, I want a seven-fold Amen. We don’t sing enough Amens in our service.
I need a postlude, something I could feel viscerally if I sat in the choir loft. One option would be the Toccata from Symphony V by Charles-Marie Widor, which I first heard in 1992 at my graduation from library school. But there are others.
Finally, I want someone to play a recording of In The Mood by The Henhouse Five (Plus Two), the nom de poulet of Ray Stevens, purveyor of eclectic songs such as Gitarzan, Mr. Businessman, Everything Is Beautiful, and The Streak. I have the song on a Warner Bros. Loss Leader. He showed that, and I’ve known this ever since, almost anything can be done in chicken. (See, for example, Ode To Chicken by TwoSetViolin.)
I suppose this is all subject to change, with music I’m not thinking of. (I’m REALLY bad at remembering names of instrumentals.) And since I’ll be, er, dead, I don’t want to handcuff the planners of my funeral TOO much. But I thought it was a pretty good first draft.
Word of the day: gallimaufry- a confused jumble or medley of things.
The Norwegian Nobel Committee awarded Maria Corina Machado the Nobel Peace Prize 2025. She will receive it for her tireless work promoting democratic rights for the people of Venezuela and for her struggle to achieve a just and peaceful transition from dictatorship to democracy.
UAlbany Alum Omar Yaghi ’85 Shares 2025 Nobel Prize in Chemistry. He was born in Amman, Jordan.
A Stranger Shattered Their Lives. At First, They Didn’t Know Why. A family reckons with the devastation left behind after a former N.F.L. player showed up on their property.
An Ohio village moved to rename a park after its hometown baseball star, Ray Brown. Controversy followed
What the evidence tells us about Tylenol, leucovorin, and autism. The questions of whether acetaminophen can cause the condition or leucovorin can treat it have been studied to a fair degree
Hallelujah, “the linguistic Swiss Army knife of joy”
Twelve Failed Constitutional Amendments That Could Have Reshaped American History
Making amends: A friendship forged from the Unabomber’s violence
Announcing the Winners of the 5th Annual Keeley Schenwar Memorial Essay Prize. The prize honors the work of incarcerated and formerly incarcerated authors writing toward a more just world.
The NYG&B has released a significant addition to its online records: a free-to-use, enhanced index for FamilySearch’s digital collection New York, Land Records, 1630–1975. The searchable index comprises 63.5 million records for more than 32 million transactions, including deeds, mortgages, patents, and land grants.
The Great Chicago Fire of October 8-10, 1871 | Journey to American Democracy
New book – The Essential Peanuts by Charles M. Schulz: The Greatest Comic Strip of All Time by Mark Evanier
Jane Goodall, renowned chimpanzee researcher and animal advocate, dies at 91
I’ve long been convinced that, though Diane Keaton won an Oscar for Annie Hall, her performance that same year in Waiting for Mr. Goodbar (1977) sealed the deal. I’ve also caught her in The Godfather (1972), Reds (1981), Baby Boom (1987), Father of the Bride I and II (1991, 1995), The First Wives’ Club (1996), Something’s Gotta Give (2003), The Family Stone (2005), and Finding Dory (2016-voice). Oh, and every single Woody Allen movie in which she appeared. She died at age 79.
The Dionne Quintuplets Captivated the World During the Great Depression. But Their Fame Came at a Cost
The Thieves That Wrestled With Their Conscience and A Heroic Reason to Steal a Jacket
News consumption
The blogger DelSo writes, “I’m sorry that the country where I live is so selfish that far too many people care for no one beyond themselves.” She then discusses the “Sumud Flotilla and its attempt to deliver critical aid to Palestine,” and other topics.
An old buddy complained, “Why isn’t this story all over the news?” referring to Body slamming, teargas, and pepper balls: viral videos show Ice using extreme force in Chicago.
Astonishingly often, I read or hear, “This should be getting far more attention than it is getting”about a wide swath of topics.
Conversely, many of my friends said they hardly watch the news, or at least limit the content. “It’s too depressing!”
I absolutely agree with all of it. There’s a lot of news that goes underreported. Sarah Mullally, the bishop of London, has been appointed archbishop of Canterbury, yet this didn’t make that evening’s network news, which I watched. At the same time, the sentencing of Sean “Puffy” Combs led the broadcasts.
As noted in Last Week Tonight with John Oliver, Bari Weiss took over CBS News’s leadership, which is worrisome.
I hope people can stay informed because lots of stuff is happening, much of it distressing. At the same time, I’m hoping others will allow some grace for those who can’t bear the 24-hour, largely overwhelming, news cycle.
One suggestion: avoid clickbait, those sites you have to click on to where some presumably terrible headline has occurred.
June Squibb stars in ScarJo’s directorial premiere
My wife and I saw the movie Eleanor the Great at a recent Saturday matinee at the Spectrum Theatre in Albany. We were not disappointed. The IMDb noted, “After a devastating loss, witty and proudly troublesome Eleanor Morgenstein, 94, tells a tale that takes on its own dangerous life.”
Eleanor (June Squibb) lived with her long-time friend Bessie (Rita Zohar), a pair of widows, for over a decade. Bessie was a Holocaust survivor who shared harrowing details with her friend.
After Bessie’s death, Eleanor moved to Manhattan to live with her daughter Lisa (Jessica Hecht) and her grandson Max (Will Price). Eleanor and Lisa have a tricky relationship.
To fill her mom’s day, Lisa recommended that Eleanor go to an event at the Jewish Community Center. It turns out that it’s a Holocaust survivor’s group, and Eleanor is not a survivor. But she knows another’s story quite well. The group is entranced, especially college student Lisa (Erin Kellyman), who wants to write about Eleanor for her class.
Lisa, too, has experienced loss and is having a tough time connecting with her father, local newsman Roger Davis (Chiwetel Ejiofor).
Critics
Eleanor the Great is Scarlett Johansson’s directorial debut. We liked the film a lot. An interesting device was having a flashback serve as the last scene.
On Rotten Tomatoes, the film received 67% positive reviews from critics and 93% from the audience. I believe the majority of the negative comments the film either addressed or wasn’t saying.
“Dull portrait of friendship”? Meh.
“This comedy/drama is problematic because it tries to make dishonesty and rudeness from an old person look cute.” The dishonesty wasn’t cute; she fell into it, much to our discomfort. And Eleanor WAS a bit rude. I hope I’m that rude at 94.
Tara McNamera noted: “Plenty will see this film about sidestepping the truth as standard fare—cute enough, maybe even a little thought-provoking—but they’ll be missing the bigger picture. In fact, Scarlett Johansson‘s feature directing debut is remarkable. The story of Eleanor the Great is powerful… It’s a very personal story, with shocking details about Nazi cruelty and the lasting trauma inflicted on the survivors of their hatred.”
I liked June Squibb in Nebraska and Thelma, and I loved her in Eleanor the Great.