Dad and the neighbor’s tree

Wizard of Oz

Here’s the story about Dad and the neighbor’s tree. The photo above was taken in August of 1969. My baby sister says she remembers the picture but not the incident, whereas my recollections are the opposite.

Let me tell you about that tree. I saw it from my bedroom at 5 Gaines Street, Binghamton, NY, looking towards the tree and the house at 1 Gaines. The photo was likely shot from our driveway.

The tree weirded me out. It reminded me of one of those mean trees in the Wizard of Oz movie: gnarled and sinister. Sometimes when I woke up from a dream, I would see an ominous face on the tree.

Sidebar (1965)

Here’s something only tangentially related. In 1965, when I was a 7th grader at Daniel S Dickinson Junior High School, there were some new kids in our class. One of them was Dawn, with flaming red hair. Based on a note her friend Bernadette passed me, Dawn seemed romantically interested in me. I was 12—she might have been a year or two older—and I had no idea what to do with this information, so I did nothing.

Back to the main story (1969)

The caption says the tree “accidentally crashed into the house… and  the elm was being felled by the building’s owner when it tipped in the wrong direction into the building.”

My father is watching this young man, probably in his early twenties, work on this tree, ensuring it won’t strike our house. Dad told the guy that the tree would hit his dwelling. The fellow told Dad to mind his business as though this “old man,” who would have been in his early forties, was a foolish meddler. My father told me about this exchange before the tree was felled.

It “accidentally” hit 1 Gaines, which is technically accurate, but it was an avoidable incident. I don’t know the tenant in the photo; I suspect he lived upstairs, and the tree branches breached his dwelling area.

(Do you know how to “fell a tree” safely? If not, click here. This is from OSHA, which sister Leslie sent me.)

I think the owner lived downstairs with his wife, who I’m almost positive was Dawn from 7th grade, with a baby.

My father, an artist and floral designer, had excellent spatial acuity. He would have been 99 years old tomorrow.

PS: My sister

A walk around the neighborhood

Emergency Department

My wife took a walk around the neighborhood on Wednesday, September 10th. She said she’d return at 7:30 a.m., but came back about seven minutes early.

I was shocked! She looked as though she had been assaulted on the face! The cut above her left eyebrow seeped enough blood to cover the left third of her face. Several people later told me that the head has much more blood per cubic centimeter than the rest of the body. She had bruising under her left eye.  I don’t think she realized how bad she looked until she got a gander at the mirror. She also had some minor cuts elsewhere, on her fingers and knee.

She had fallen on the sidewalk, just like she had three years ago when she tripped on an uneven surface. But this time, there was seemingly no culprit.  She looked worse than that time.  

I made an appointment for her at the urgent care place, which she went to around 10:30. A couple of hours later, she called me and said the urgent care place had encouraged her to go to the emergency room at St. Peter’s Hospital. She was asked who had accompanied her, and no one had.

ER

I took the bus and met her at St Peter’s. She got to the triage area, or whatever they call it, with her on a gurney outside of a room, and eventually, I got in there, too. I was falling asleep in the Emergency Department waiting room, but in the triage area, that was impossible with all of the monitors beeping and buzzing.

Over a period of about four hours, she got some pain medicine, a CAT scan  (no brain injury), and some X-rays. At last, she got a splint because she had broken the bone on her left pinky closest to the palm. 

We noticed the couple at the next gurney since we had been there for a long time. The husband was there with his wife, the patient. She was in such a weakened state that the nurse asked the patient whether her husband could sign the consent form for her treatment, and she nodded yes.

The interaction gave me information that had not occurred to me.  The nurse asked him whether they had the same insurance, and they did so that he could provide the nurse with his insurance information. But my wife and I do not have the same insurance, so I need my wife’s information, and she needs mine.

My wife is recovering well, thank you. The black eye, worse than the last one, is fading. However, interestingly, some bruising on her shoulder and hip, not immediately evident right after the fall, became more prominent a week later before eventually fading. 

Epilogue

A week later, she went to a specialist, who wanted to bind her left pinkie with her left ring finger. This meant my wife removing her wedding ring, which was recrafted with her engagement ring.  Despite concerted efforts, they could not remove the ring, which was still swollen from the accident.    So they had to cut her ring off, which, despite their slow (over an hour) and deliberate efforts, was quite physically uncomfortable.

We were both sad about the ring, which we’ll get fixed after her hand is healed. 

Blog-specific edition of Ask Roger Anything

SCOTUS

This is the blog-specific edition of Ask Roger Anything. People have asked me general questions, sometimes in person, some via email or Facebook. I’ve often gotten them enough that I should address them.

One is: Why do I do the quizzes, notably Sunday Stealing? There are two basic reasons. One is that they are easy; I can do them quickly. I sort of free-associate when I’m writing, and I don’t have to fact-check them because they’re all from my own experience.

The other reason is that I tend to get more responses to them than to many of my other blog posts. And it’s not just from the people participating in the quiz but also from people who email me and say, “We’re following your posts.” I guess because they’re more relatable.

Another question is Why do I write about politics all the time? As I’ve said repeatedly, I hate talking about it. On the other hand, I don’t want people to think that the stuff that’s going down is OK. I don’t want my silence to signify consent to what Public Citizen calls the “unilaterally, unconstitutionally, and unlawfully dismantling the federal government — our government — from Cabinet-level departments… to smaller agencies that go largely unnoticed as they do the routine, unheralded work that makes for a functioning country.”

Math is everywhere

I had a great time drinking with a friend and their friend last month. We had this wonderful, weird conversation about why math is everywhere. I mentioned this question from Who Wants to Be a Millionaire, which was fun for those who like numbers and terrifying for those who don’t, such as contestants Helen Hunt and Daniel Bucatinsky. The $250,000 question:

“The judicial handshake is a US Supreme Court tradition in which all nine justices shake hands with each other once for a total of how many handshakes.”

The choices were 18, 25, 36, and 57.

The AI says: “You can find the answer by using the formula for triangular numbers, N * (N-1) / 2, where N is the number of people (9 in this case), so 9 * 8 / 2 = 36.” Well, yeah, but that’s too mathy. Since you don’t shake your own hand, one could add 8+7+6+5+4+3+2+1, which also equals 36.   

This is why figuring out fractions should be done with pie charts, or preferably, actual pies, instead of talking about multiplying the numerator and the denominator. (More pies, Kelly!)

The ask

If you have other queries, you can Ask Roger Anything. Roger loves to answer almost any question, no matter how absurd. He will respond in a few weeks. It takes time to be true and accurate! 

You can leave your questions in the comments section of this blog, in my email, referenced elsewhere on this blog, or on my Facebook page (Roger Owen Green); always look for the duck.

Charlie Kirk and cancel culture

Leviticus 18 v Leviticus 19

My first inclination was to write SOMETHING about Charlie Kirk. Then not. But what I’m noticing that would be fascinating if it weren’t so damn scary is this: “conservatives” are engaging in the very “cancel culture” that they complained about less than a decade ago. In fact, the graphic is from the website of a conservative Republican Congressman from 2020.

I put “conservatives” in quotes because the mainstream media and other entities have been cowed into punishing people who have challenged the narrative that Kirk is a free speech advocate and that he was killed by the “radical left.” The attacks have little to do with grief and much to do with political weaponization.

 The Daily Show has covered the topic here and here. 

ITEM: From Katie Couric -“A 2024 report from the National Institute of Justice found that since 1990, far-right extremists have carried out the vast majority of ideologically motivated killings in the U.S. — 227 attacks that claimed more than 520 lives. By contrast, far-left extremists were behind 42 such attacks, killing 78 people.”

Couric notes, “The study was reported missing from the Justice Department’s website on Sept. 13, just three days after Kirk’s assassination. It has since been archived, but the DOJ hasn’t explained the removal, saying only that it is ‘reviewing its websites … in accordance with recent Executive Orders.’ This study isn’t an outlier. Other research points to the same conclusion.”

I would accept “radicalized” without the descriptor.

Frankly, I find the discussion about whether Kirk’s killer was radicalized by the “left” or “right” sophomoric. But it was the reason Disney’s ABC pulled Jimmy Kimmel’s late-night show “indefinitely” after conservatives accused Kimmel of misrepresenting the politics of the accused, a ‘Red Alert Moment’ for Free Speech, according to Common Dreams.

From the NYT:  Brendan Carr, the chairman of the FCC, “was interviewed on the right-wing influencer Benny Johnson’s podcast and appeared to threaten fines or revoke broadcast licenses over what he called ‘news distortion’ and specifically mentioned — of all people — Jimmy Kimmel.” Soon, Kimmel was gone.

 

Sen. Ted Cruz, not one of my favorite people, said that Carr sounded like a mafia crime boss when he threatened ABC’s licenses over Kimmel’s comments about Kirk.

 

SAG-AFTRA noted, “The decision to suspend airing ‘Jimmy Kimmel Live!’ is the type of suppression and retaliation that endangers everyone’s freedoms.” Free speech was the hallmark of the Charlie Kirk “brand,” even though Kirk regularly berated the TV host.

ITEM from The Guardian via MSN: Pam Bondi faces rightwing backlash for saying she’ll target ‘hate speech’ after Kirk killing. “Bondi said on a podcast hosted by Katie Miller, the wife of the rightwing White House deputy chief of staff Stephen Miller, that there is ‘free speech and then there’s hate speech, and there is no place, especially now, especially after what happened to Charlie, in our society.’

“Legal experts and conservative pundits have condemned the comments because there is no ‘hate speech’ exception in the First Amendment right to speech, and as such, targeting people for their charged rhetoric would be unconstitutional.” As Daily Kos noted, “Even Charlie Kirk would’ve disagreed with Pam Bondi about ‘hate speech.'”

Republican political strategist Karl Rove, whom I disliked intensely when he was in W’s administration, noted in the Wall Street Journal. “No. Charlie Kirk wasn’t killed by ‘them.’ ‘They’ didn’t pull the trigger. One person did…  Using Charlie’s murder to justify retaliation against political rivals is wrong and dangerous. It will further divide and embitter our country. No good thing will come of it.”

Your brain on propaganda

ITEM: Read Brainwashed nation, part I: Assault and battery upon the American brain from Nation of Change.  “Propaganda is not just about the content of a message but its mode of delivery. The right-wing media moguls and their ranting hirelings; a radically politicized fundamentalist Christianity that preaches a puerile albeit vivid biblical literalism… have reshaped not only the American ‘mind,’ but millions of brains as well.”  I will admit that Charlie Kirk was REALLY good at this.

Per Heather Cox Richardson: FOTUS “Has Divided the World Into Friends and Enemies.”

“Vice President JD Vance hosted The Charlie Kirk Show and ended his episode with a rallying call to report anyone sharing negative views of Kirk in the wake of his death to their employers.” I wonder what Charlie would think?

One week before the assassination of Charlie Kirk, Utah Valley University released a statement affirming its “commitment to free speech, intellectual inquiry, and constructive dialogue.” The statement went on to paint a vision of the intellectual environment the university strives to create: one in which “ideas — popular or controversial — can be exchanged freely, energetically, and civilly.”

So that’s “civility”? 

So Charlie Kirk could “civilly” say, as he told the crowd at his annual conservative political conference, AmericaFest, in 2023. “We made a huge mistake when we passed the Civil Rights Act in the 1960s.” His narrow sense of history boggles.

He could “civilly” make undermining comments like, “If I see a Black pilot, I’m gonna be like, ‘Boy, I hope he’s qualified.'” Ah, he was the target audience of “DEI in the Sky? No More, Thanks to Racial Support Pilots” on The Daily Show a few months ago.

He could “civilly” tell TV children’s star Miss Rachel, who quoted Leviticus 19, “love your neighbor as yourself,” that “in Leviticus 18,’ thou that shall lie with another man shall be stoned to death.’ Just saying.” This bastardization of Christianity rankles me.

He could “civilly” put professors on his Turning Point USA target list, some of whom had received death threats.

And the presumed constitutional scholar could “civilly” say, “There is no separation of church and state. It’s a fabrication, it’s a fiction, it’s not in the Constitution. It’s made up by secular humanists.”

But what IS truth?

Journalist and author Ann Neumann notes, per my friend Jeff Sharlet:    “The outpouring of grief for Kirk has been fraught with controversy: The old ruse of not speaking ill of the dead has melded with Republican righteousness to warp newspapers’ reporting and lead to the sacking of employees for saying the truth about Kirk: He called enemies ‘maggots’ and ‘vermin,’ he suggested that Black women lack ‘brain processing power,’ that Jewish financiers fund anti-whiteness, that children might benefit from viewing televised executions. He said it all with an affable affect. It made him rich and powerful.” The effect makes folks think, “Well, I never thought about it THAT way.”

“It is not just, for instance, that Kirk held disagreeable views,” Ta-Nehisi Coates writes in Vanity Fair. “It’s that Kirk reveled in open bigotry.” By ignoring the rhetoric and actions of the Turning Point USA founder, Coates argues, pundits and politicians are sanitizing Charlie Kirk’s legacy.

Finally, DelSo has some sage advice: “Protect yourself and your energy. Refuse to engage with anyone wishing to debate you – especially when evidence (I like to call it facts) supports your position. You will never persuade someone to abandon their stance when actual documented events are rejected by those who instead choose willful, blind ignorance.” 

Charlie Kirk would “debate anyone,” but he was largely successful by ambushing young, naive, and unprepared college students who had not thought their arguments through. When a Cambridge student confronted him, Charlie got SCHOOLED. 

So I have, I hope, purged the topic from my mind. Probably not. Oh, yes:  Charlie Kirk should not have shot. Do I really have to say that? I’d better, just in case. 

Sunday Stealing: Memememe — Part 1

Three different songs titled Games People Play

FUDGE!

Welcome to Sunday Stealing. Here we will steal all types of questions from every corner of the blogosphere. Our promise to you is that we will work hard to find the most interesting and intelligent questions. Cheers to all of us thieves!

Impetua is a blogger who stole this meme from someone named Mel, whose blog no longer exists. There were originally 58 questions, but for Sunday Stealing we’re going with 20 over two weeks.

Memememe — Part 1

1. The phone rings. Who do you want it to be?

My daughter from college probably has some arcane questions to ask me, or wants to know if she can spend money. The arcane topic could be a great philosophical musing, and it can be interesting because I hadn’t thought of that issue at that point. Sometimes, she likes to compare notes about how she’s feeling about a new situation.

2. When shopping at the grocery store, do you return your cart?

Yes, I usually have a little cart to wheel the groceries home. Having both my personal cart and the store cart can be awkward, so I want to abandon the latter as quickly as possible. I leave it in the store area that has other carts.

3. In a social setting, are you more of a talker or a listener?

It really depends. If it’s people I know and I feel comfortable with, probably a talker. If it’s people I don’t know well, I’m probably more of a listener, leaning into my basic shyness.

4. Do you take compliments well?

I don’t think so.

Games People Play

5. Do you play Sudoku or Wordle?Earned badge

I’ve tried Sudoku sparingly. Conversely, I have played nearly 1300 Wordle games and am now at 1000 consecutive successful games since the above miss, when I changed my strategy. 

Wordle 1297

6. Did you ever go to camp as a kid?

Once or twice, I want to say it was the Boys Club or maybe the YMCA. It wasn’t something I particularly enjoyed

7. Could you date someone with different religious beliefs than you?

As some call a “liberal” Christian, I’m much more concerned by other Christians who believe that empathy is a sin, which does not jibe with my understanding of the teachings of Jesus. Moreover, it causes non-Christians to link intolerance with Christianity forever.

8. Would you rather pursue or be pursued?

Pursued by whom and to what end? If we’re talking romance, neither.

9. Have you ever fired a gun?

When I was about seven, my Grandpa Green took me hunting. He suggested I fire his rifle, so I did. I landed on my butt.

10. Would you rather dine at Olive Garden or Panera?

I can say that we’ve been to Panera far more times, and in two states.

Thank you for playing! Please come back next week.

 

Ramblin' with Roger
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