Sunday Stealing: Memememe — Part 1

Three different songs titled Games People Play

FUDGE!

Welcome to Sunday Stealing. Here we will steal all types of questions from every corner of the blogosphere. Our promise to you is that we will work hard to find the most interesting and intelligent questions. Cheers to all of us thieves!

Impetua is a blogger who stole this meme from someone named Mel, whose blog no longer exists. There were originally 58 questions, but for Sunday Stealing we’re going with 20 over two weeks.

Memememe — Part 1

1. The phone rings. Who do you want it to be?

My daughter from college probably has some arcane questions to ask me, or wants to know if she can spend money. The arcane topic could be a great philosophical musing, and it can be interesting because I hadn’t thought of that issue at that point. Sometimes, she likes to compare notes about how she’s feeling about a new situation.

2. When shopping at the grocery store, do you return your cart?

Yes, I usually have a little cart to wheel the groceries home. Having both my personal cart and the store cart can be awkward, so I want to abandon the latter as quickly as possible. I leave it in the store area that has other carts.

3. In a social setting, are you more of a talker or a listener?

It really depends. If it’s people I know and I feel comfortable with, probably a talker. If it’s people I don’t know well, I’m probably more of a listener, leaning into my basic shyness.

4. Do you take compliments well?

I don’t think so.

Games People Play

5. Do you play Sudoku or Wordle?Earned badge

I’ve tried Sudoku sparingly. Conversely, I have played nearly 1300 Wordle games and am now at 1000 consecutive successful games since the above miss, when I changed my strategy. 

Wordle 1297

6. Did you ever go to camp as a kid?

Once or twice, I want to say it was the Boys Club or maybe the YMCA. It wasn’t something I particularly enjoyed

7. Could you date someone with different religious beliefs than you?

As some call a “liberal” Christian, I’m much more concerned by other Christians who believe that empathy is a sin, which does not jibe with my understanding of the teachings of Jesus. Moreover, it causes non-Christians to link intolerance with Christianity forever.

8. Would you rather pursue or be pursued?

Pursued by whom and to what end? If we’re talking romance, neither.

9. Have you ever fired a gun?

When I was about seven, my Grandpa Green took me hunting. He suggested I fire his rifle, so I did. I landed on my butt.

10. Would you rather dine at Olive Garden or Panera?

I can say that we’ve been to Panera far more times, and in two states.

Thank you for playing! Please come back next week.

 

1985 Hot Black Singles #1s

Whitney Houston, Kool and the Gang

Here are the 1985 Hot Black Singles #1s. The category was Hot Soul Singles from July 14th. 1973 until it turned into Black Singles on June 26, 1982. Then, on October 20th, 1984, the category became Hot Black Singles. Eventually, in 1990, it would become Hot R&B Singles.

Rock Me Tonight (For Old Times Sake) – Freddie Jackson, six weeks at #1

Part-Time Lover – Stevie Wonder, six weeks at #1; also #1 pop

Freeway Of Love – Aretha Franklin, five weeks at #1. This was on the Who’s Zoomin’ Who album, considered a comeback for the Queen of Soul, which I bought. The album also contained Sisters Are Doin’ It for Themselves (with Eurythmics)

Night Shift – Commodores, four weeks at #1. This was post-Lionel Richie, that song with the dead pop stars, namechecked

Mr. Telephone Man – New Edition, three weeks at #1

Missing You – Diana Ross, three weeks at #1

Caravan Of Love – Isley Jasper Isley, three weeks at #1. The group spun off from the Isley Brothers; Chris Jasper was a brother-in-law

Don’t Say No Tonight – Eugene Wilde, three weeks at #1

Back In Stride – Maze featuring Frankie Beverly, two weeks at #1

We Are The World – USA for Africa, two weeks at #1; also #1 pop

Save Your Love (For #1) -René and Angela, two weeks at #1. René Moore and Angela Winbush. This is a club mix with Kurtis Blow; I didn’t find the single version. 

Oh Sheila – Ready For The World, two weeks at #1; also #1 pop

You Are My Lady – Freddie Jackson, two weeks at #1

One week at #1 

Gotta Get You Home Tonight -Eugene Wilde. Who IS this guy who had two RB Hits in the same year? He was born Ronald Eugene Broomfield; here’s his Wikipedia page

Rhythm of the Night – DeBarge. This song was FUN!

Fresh – Kool and the Gang

You Give Good Love – Whitney Houston. I have her first album on cassette. Cassette? 

Hanging On A String (Contemplating) -Loose Ends

Saving All My Love For You – Whitney Houston,  also #1 pop

Cherish – Kool and the Gang. Not to be confused with the Association or Madonna songs. 

Dave Parker of the Pittsburgh Pirates

The Cobra

Dave Parker of the Pittsburgh Pirates and other teams was inducted into the Baseball Hall of Fame this year. Sadly, after waiting as long as he did, he died less than a month before the ceremony.

The Hall of Fame piece notes: “Parker played for the Pirates, Reds, Athletics, Brewers, Angels, and Blue Jays during 19 big league seasons. Born June 9, 1951, in Calhoun, Miss., Parker grew up in Cincinnati and was a youth sports star until a knee injury sidelined him during his senior year of high school. As a result, the 6-foot-5 Parker fell to the 14th round of the big league draft.

“The Pittsburgh Pirates took a chance on Parker there, and soon Parker was tearing up Pittsburgh’s minor league system. By 1975, Parker found his way into the Pirates’ starting outfield.”

The MLB obituary reads, in part: “His skill was as supreme as his style and swagger…. Few players have ever been as talented or entertaining as Dave Parker, the Hall of Fame outfielder nicknamed ‘The Cobra.’ Parker passed away on Saturday after a long battle with Parkinson’s disease. He was 74.

“Parker’s decorated career included the 1978 National League MVP Award, two World Series championships a decade apart [the 1979 We Are Family Pirates and the 1989 Athletics], back-to-back NL batting titles, three Gold Glove and Silver Slugger awards, seven All-Star nods, the ’79 All-Star Game MVP Award, and MLB’s first Home Run Derby title in ‘85. The intimidating outfielder racked up 2,712 career hits with a .290 batting average, launched 339 homers, and drove in 1,493 runs from 1973-91.”

The mask

He had to overcome injury during his 1978 MVP season, which you can read about here.

“Parker was a trailblazer for his peers who drew the ire — as well as the frequent insults, assaults, and threats — of some fans. Before the 1979 season, he signed a five-year contract worth more than $5 million that made him the first professional baseball player to average $1 million per season… He was one of the first pro athletes to wear an earring. His poetic, bombastic quotes led teammates to call him the Muhammad Ali of baseball.”

“He was finally elected in late 2024, joining late slugger Dick Allen in the Class of 2025 through a vote from the Classic Baseball Era Committee. Parker needed at least 12 of 16 votes and got 14. When word came down, he told MLB Network, ‘I’ve been holding this speech in for 15 years.'”

He was posthumously inducted into the National Baseball Hall of Fame on Sunday, July 27, in Cooperstown, N.Y.

This is Talk Like A Pirate Day. I wish Dave Parker could have spoken for himself, but his son, David Parker II, acquitted himself well. 

Part 2 of the country hits of 1985

Exile, Earl Thomas Conley

This is part 2 of the country hits of 1985. The discussion here describes the weird things that happened on the charts, especially in the 1980s.

Tim Neely’s observations are particularly on point:

Sometime in the 1980s, the Billboard country singles chart became… almost entirely, airplay-based… Billboard always relied on airplay lists received by radio stations in that genre. They were almost as ‘scientific’ as the lists from retailers on which they based sales-related charts…. It sure seemed as if, through the 1980s, country radio station lists had a habit of removing songs or dropping them to the bottom as soon as a song hit #1. This probably didn’t reflect what actually happened on the station, but without proof to the contrary, Billboard could only go on what was reported to it.

“On January 20, 1990, the Billboard country charts were one of the first to convert entirely to the BDS method of compilation, which used actual airplay on actual stations to determine the charts. Two things happened as a result, both almost immediately:

“– The size of the chart shrank from 100 spots to 75, because hardly anyone was actually playing those indie-label records in the lower 25 positions.
“– Songs began to stay at #1 for more than one week again on a regular basis. Indeed, the very first chart-topper on the BDS-based country chart, ‘Nobody’s Home'” by Clint Black, stayed on top for three weeks.

“As it turned out, what radio said it was playing, and what it was actually playing, were two different things.”

The second half of 1985

These are all songs, charting from July through December, that charted for exactly one week.

She’s A Miracle – Exile

Forgiving You Was Easy – Willie Nelson

Dixie Road – Lee Greenwood

Love Don’t Care (Whose Heart It Breaks) – Earl Thomas Conley

Forty Hour Week (For A Living) – Alabama

I’m For Love – Hank Williams, Jr.

Highwayman – Highwaymen. The legendary quartet of Johnny Cash, Waylon Jennings, Kris Kristofferson, and the still living Willie Nelson.

Real Love – Dolly Parton (with Kenny Rogers)

Love Is Alive – The Judds

I Don’t Know Why You Don’t Want Me – Rosanne Cash

Modern Day Romance – Nitty Gritty Dirt Band

I Fell In Love Again Last Night – The Forester Sisters. I have one of their albums from 1990.

Meet Me In Montana – Marie Osmond with Dan Seals

You Make Me Want To Make You Mine – Juice Newton

Touch A Hand, Make A Friend – The Oak Ridge Boys

Some Fools Never Learn – Steve Wariner

Can’t Keep A Good Man Down – Alabama

Hang On To Your Heart – Exile

I’ll Never Stop Loving You – Gary Morris

Too Much On My Heart – The Statler Brothers

I Don’t Mind The Thorn (If You’re The Rose) – Lee Greenwood

Nobody Falls Like A Fool – Earl Thomas Conley

The Chair – George Strait

I wonder how many of these songs would have made it to #1. Many of the hits are tied to romance, so I surmise that the songs NOT about affairs of the heart, such as Forty Hour Week or The Highwayman, would have been #1 regardless..

Unconstitutional

Constitution Day

So many of the events of the past eight months in the United States have been, to my mind, clearly unconstitutional, though, to be accurate, some problems existed well before that. I thought I’d wade through the founding document.

But before that, from August: The Library of Congress Website Deleted Part of the Constitution That He Doesn’t Like. Now They’re Calling It a ‘Coding Error’. For instance: “Section 9, which focuses on the limitations of Congress’ authority, notably includes a clause that Congress cannot suspend habeas corpus — which grants everyone in custody the right to challenge their detention in court — unless necessary for safety in moments of “rebellion or invasion.” The White House deputy chief of staff, Stephen Miller, told reporters in May that the administration is ‘actively looking at” suspending habeas corpus.”

In the beginning

Preamble: We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity…

Justice for whom? Massive pardons belie that. ICE raids terrorize people. The rich will get richer with the OBBB. EPA has slashed clean air and water protections. NIH-funded cancer trials have been canceled mid-cycle. Cybersecurity experts have been fired, leaving data unprotected.

Article I, Section 2: The actual Enumeration shall be made…  within every subsequent Term of ten Years, in such Manner as they shall by Law direct. 

The Texas plan and other gerrymandering are part of the Massive Fraud that’s tearing America apart. As Heather Cox Richardson noted, and anyone who has worked in the State Daa Center (I have) knows, “Taking an accurate [national] census suddenly is also not remotely possible. Setting one up takes most of the decade between them and costs close to $15 billion. Census officials are already working on the 2030 census.

Article I, Section 7: Every Bill which shall have passed the House of Representatives and the Senate, shall, before it become a Law, be presented to the President of the United States: If he approve he shall sign it…

The DOGE cuts are unconstitutional. In February, “Congressman Jamie Raskin (MD-08), alongside a delegation of congressional Democrats, delivered remarks outside the USAID headquarters in D.C. amidst attempts by President Trump and Elon Musk to shut down the nation’s top humanitarian aid agency.

Graft

Article I, Section 9: No Person holding any Office of Profit or Trust under them, shall, without the Consent of the Congress, accept of any present, Emolument, Office, or Title, of any kind whatever, from any King, Prince, or foreign State.

There’s that “free” airplane someone received, which will cost a billion dollars to retrofit. Plus so much quid pro quo that I can’t keep track. But the issue is not new. Before djt’s first term, a piece on his “Dangerous, Unprecedented, and Unconstitutional Conflicts of Interest.”

Article II, Section 4: The President… shall be removed from Office on Impeachment for, and Conviction of, Treason, Bribery, or other high Crimes and Misdemeanors

A third impeachment is not going to happen, but he is profiting from his office like no one else in my lifetime.

Tariffs

Article I Section 8: The Congress shall have Power To lay and collect Taxes, Duties, Imposts and Excises…To establish a uniform Rule of Naturalization…To declare War

The unilateral tariffs by FOTUS are bogus. Threats by the FOTUS to “unnaturalize” someone are an affront. Congress has ceded the responsibility to declare war for decades.

Amendment I (1791): Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

Yet all of these have been abridged this century. HCR wrote in August: “Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth reposted a video in which Christian nationalist pastors express their opposition to the idea of women voting. ‘I would like to see this nation being a Christian nation, and I would like this world to be a Christian world,’ said Christian nationalist Doug Wilson. In his repost of the video, Hegseth wrote, ‘All of Christ for All of Life.'”

Amendment II (1791): A well-regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.

Access to assault weapons is NOT a “well-regulated militia.”

Amendment XXII (1951): Section 1. No person shall be elected to the office of the President more than twice, and no person who has held the office of President, or acted as President, for more than two years of a term to which some other person was elected President shall be elected to the office of the President more than once. 

No, he CAN’T run in 2028 for President OR Vice-President. He said “he would ‘probably not’ seek a third term in office, despite expressing interest and citing substantial poll numbers during an interview on CNBC’s Squawk Box” in August. It creates a cynical chance for him to sell merch

USA’s so-called PATRIOT Act

There is a 2004 film by Nonny de la Peña called Unconstitutional: The War on Our Civil Liberties. It’s a documentary(69 minutes) that investigates how “the civil liberties of U.S. citizens and immigrants have been rolled back since 9/11/2001 and the passage of the Patriot Act.”

This video, a trailer for a 2012 documentary, also titled Unconstitutional,  notes similar concerns. “This… documentary reveals how paranoia, fear, and ethnic profiling have led to the subjugation of America’s constitutional rights. Made for a theatrical release by Hollywood director Robert Greenwald, ‘Unconstitutional’ exposes how the Patriot Act, made to defend America, is actually leaving it more vulnerable to future terrorist attacks.”

What would you add to the list?

Not incidentally, it’s Constitution Day in America.

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