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Sunday Stealing Pretends It’s Wednesday

Every lock that ain’t locked, when no one’s around

Welcome to Sunday Stealing. Here we will steal all types of questions from every corner of the blogosphere. Our promise to you is that we will work hard to find the most interesting and intelligent questions. Cheers to all of us thieves!

This week, all eyes turn to Mary, who long ago played Wednesday Medley, which she credited to Terri D (Your Friend from Florida), who originally came up with the questions.

A Wednesday meme on a Sunday (Sunday Stealing Pretends It’s Wednesday)

1. Name five songs that you have completely memorized.

I’m sure there are hundreds of them from when I was growing up, kids’ songs, Christmas carols, hymns, and the like.

The Boxer—Simon and Garfunkel (but not that “after changes upon changes, we’re more or less the same” part that was excised and later re-added). This song fed right into my teenage angst.

Help! – The Beatles. I belonged to the Capitol Records Club from 1966 to ’68, in large part to get all of the Beatles’ albums. I owned none before this. Help, BTW, was a song that my daughter and a friend sang at a church musical.

King Of The Road -Roger Miller. One of the CRC items sent to me because of the negative option—you get the item unless you let them know in a timely fashion—was Roger Miller’s Golden Hits on Smash Records. I liked it. It helped that he had a great first name.

So Soon In The Morning – Joan Baez. This song was on the Green Family Singers’ repertoire from this album. I sang it once at my former church with a soprano named Laura.

Go Where You Wanna Go – the Mamas and the Papas. It was also in the Green Family Singers song list, but it was just my sister Leslie and me.

Time Has Come Today

2. What takes up too much of your time?

I’m whittling down my emails. My email triggers me to work on booking speakers for the Friends and Foundation of the Albany Public Library every Tuesday, writing blog posts, paying bills, and engaging in personal interactions.

3. What TV show or movie do you refuse to watch?

I generally avoid movies and television shows with a lot of violence. I can’t give you names because if I don’t watch them, I don’t remember them. However, I made an exception this year for the movie Sinners, which my daughter recommended.

4. What’s worth spending more on to get the best?

The first thing that came to mind was some breakfast cereal. I bought a box of ersatz Cheerios 30 years ago, which tasted like cardboard.

5. Share something you did last week.

Yesterday, I went onto my front porch to pick up the morning newspaper. Yes, we read a daily physical periodical. I saw this cool spider web. I’m not a guy who takes a lot of pictures, especially on my phone, but this called to me. So I got closer, but the sun washed out the look. I tried from the street side, but that didn’t work either.

Finally, I returned to the entryway, snapped the photo, then trimmed it by about 90%. (The picture below is similar to the shot above before trimming; see the spider in front of the tree.) I’m glad I took it when I did because, a half hour later, the spider was gone.

Thank you for playing! Please come back next week.

Hot Country Singles of 1985, part 1

Ray and Willie

These are the Billboard Hot Country Singles of 1985, part 1. Why only part 1? Because 51 songs made it to #1 that year. And it wasn’t just 1985 but the whole decade. There were 33 #1s in 1979. In the ’80s, there were, in chronological order: 43, 47, 47, 50, 50, 51, 51, 49, 48, and 49, #1 country hits. In 1990, 24, and never more than 32 in any year for the rest of the century.

Why was that? From this music forum: “I just received a response to my question from Joel Whitburn himself, who sheds some more light on the issue.” The late Whitburn was the publisher of the Record Research books that line my bookshelves.

“I’m well aware of the different methodologies Billboard has used in compiling their charts. I was told by Billboard’s chart manager back in the mid-70’s that the Country charts were tabulated mostly by airplay and that the record companies wanted fast turnover at the top of the charts, so that more artists (and labels) would share in the bounty of a #1 hit. He said the promotional staffs of the record labels worked with radio so that as soon as a song hit #1, it would be pulled from their hot playlist and another song would peak at #1, etc.

It’s a different story today, as the Country chart is compiled by a combination of monitored airplay and sales data.”

This created a dizzying list of songs where only two, Have Mercy – The Judds, and Lost In The Fifties Tonight (In The Still Of The Night) – Ronnie Milsap, led the charts for even two weeks. BTW, In The Still Of The Night was a hit single by the Five Satins as early as 1956 (#3 RB, #24 pop).

First half, in chronological order, all one week at #1

Does Fort Worth Ever Cross Your Mind – George Strait

The Best Year Of My Life – Eddie Rabbit

How Blue – Reba McEntire

There’s A Fire In The Night – Alabama

A Place To Fall Apart – Merle Haggard (with Janie Frick)

Ain’t She Something Else – Conway Twitty

Make My Life With You – Oak Ridge Boys

Baby’s Got Her Blue Jeans On – Mel McDaniel

Baby Bye Bye -Gary Morris

My Only Love -The Statler Brothers

Crazy For Your Love – Exile

Seven Spanish Angels – Ray Charles with Willie Nelson; the one song I recognized straightaway

Crazy – Kenny Rogers; yes, this is the cover of the Willie Nelson song that Patsy Cline took to #2 CW and AC for two weeks, and #9 pop in 1961/62

Country Girls – John Schneider, Bo Duke on the TV show The Dukes of Hazzard

Honor Bound – Earl Thomas Conley

I Need More Of You – The Bellamy Brothers

Girls Night Out – The Judds

There’s No Way – Alabama; this is classic country rock harmony.

Somebody Should Leave – Reba McEntire

Step That Step – Sawyer Brown

Radio Heart – Charly McLean

Don’t Call Him A Cowboy – Conway Twitty

Natural High – Merle Haggard

Country Boy – Ricky Skaggs; Ricky can really pick it

Little Things -the Oak Ridge Boys

She Keeps The Home Fires Burning Ronnie Millsap

Note that some artists had consecutive #1s (Reba, Alabama, Twitty, Haggard, Judds), and if you see the list of the previous or subsequent six months, you’ll find the same pattern.

Avoid the news?

cOVID shot #8

A friend recently posted that 42% of people in the US and 46% in the UK sometimes or often avoid the news, according to the 2025 Digital News Report.

Meanwhile, another friend told me to limit my news consumption to preclude going crazy. (I think this was a misunderstanding of what I had been trying to say, that I felt melancholy. But it wasn’t because it was reading the news, but physical pain and mourning.)

Anyway, they read The Guardian and the New York Times, as do I. However, as I’ve noted previously, it is essential to look at many different news sources and understand the context of what is happening.

Don’t care

This is not to say that every story in every source is significant. My wife and I do the New York Times news quiz every week, and we usually get nine or 10 out of the 11 questions correct. But I’m convinced that at least one weekly question is of the “Who cares?” variety.

One was about the workout that Pete Hagseth and Robert F Kennedy, Jr. are touting; I didn’t know they were doing that. It asked what the components of the Pete and Bobby fitness regime were. My response was a shrug. As it turns out, we guessed correctly, but I would not have felt unworthy as a news consumer if I didn’t know.

There was the thing at a baseball game about a home run ball that a guy gave to his son. Then a woman scolded the man, claiming she had the ball first, and the guy gave her the ball. The team gave the boy some swag, as the woman was labelled a “Karen.” I saw this on CBS Mornings. I didn’t care.

If I look back five years, I won’t remember the workout or the baseball kerfluffle. I might remember the earthquake in Afghanistan because it had consequences for those people and geopolitical implications.

Remember the so-called Coldplay Kiss Cam story? Can I remember the name of the company those two people worked for? No, I’ve seen it cited several times, but my brain seems to have this weird filtering-out thing that says what I need to know and what I can let go of.

Conversely

Here’s some information I really did like. I was on Facebook, which is sometimes helpful and sometimes crap. Somebody I knew had written that they had gotten a COVID shot in my area on Sunday. I had gone to the CVS portal several times, including that morning, unsuccessfully trying to get an appointment.

I tried again Sunday night, and behold! There was only one location in my area where I could get a shot: Delmar, a suburb south of Albany. That was OK, as it turns out, I had a medical appointment very near there on Tuesday anyway. There were no side effects except a muscle ache for a few hours at the injection site.

Incidentally, I had gotten my flu shot four days earlier, at a different CVS, when I thought I wouldn’t be getting a COVID shot. So this was COVID shot #8, all at various CVS pharmacies, at least four different ones.

- September 9, 2025
- August 28, 2024
- October 13, 2023
- December 5, 2022
- April 12, 2022
- September 30, 2021
- March 24, 2021
- March 3, 2021

Ten Favorite TV Characters

I was reviewing my draft posts recently when I came across a piece from 2009 (!), titled “Ten Favorite TV Characters.” I had only finished the first three and then likely forgot about it.

Peggy Fair, Mannix (Gail Fisher, 1935-2000): Peggy was Joe Mannix’s secretary, and most of the time had little to do but patch up her boss. But about once a year, there was a Peggy story; Peggy wooed by an African prince or some such, and those episodes always showed how utterly underutilized Peggy was.

Subsequently, I wrote about Gail here when I discussed a short film titled “The New Girl,” which Steve Bissette introduced me to. She was one of a relatively few black people on network TV in 1968.

Rob Petrie, The Dick Van Dyke Show (Dick Van Dyke, 1925-): Rob had a talented, beautiful and charming wife, great friends/colleagues, and about as complete a back story as I can remember. He also had a pill for a boss, but no life is perfect.

I wrote about the show in 2012, and how my daughter was turned onto it via our DVD DVD collection in 2013. But I’ve mentioned Dick at least 100 times in this blog.

Boomer

Dr. Jack Morrison, St. Elsewhere (David Morse, 1953-): Jack was, at once, a major screwup – he got through med school at a less-than-credible Caribbean locale, and yet so dedicated to his work that he neglects his marriage. His wife’s death made him a single dad just trying to muddle through. I always related to Boomer, as he was often referred to.

I have the first season of St. Elsewhere on DVD. It wasn’t a gift as such; someone sent it to me to review, which, it appears, I never did. Morse appears on various TV shows and movies; I last saw him in the movie Cabrini in 2024.

Frank Pembleton, Homicide: Life On The Street (Andre Braugher, 1962 -2023): Pembleton was passionate, intelligent (he knew Latin and Greek), focused, and very intense, very successful in eliciting confessions from suspects. But he was also impatient, particularly with his young partner.

I also enjoyed him in a half dozen episodes of Law & Order: SVU as a defense attorney. He was on Brooklyn Nine-Nine, which I rarely watched, but he was surprisingly funny.

Hawkeye

Benjamin Franklin Pierce, MAS*H (Alan Alda, 1936-): Captain Hawkeye Pierce evolved tremendously, especially after Trapper left and B.J. joined. I wrote about the show in 2015.

I saw Alda most recently in the movie Marriage Story in 2020, just before COVID.

Kermit the Frog, Sesame Street/Muppet Show (self). The frog was the relatively rational center amidst chaos. And he’s green, which, I can tell you from personal experience, is not easy.

Frasier Crane, Frasier (Kelsey Grammer, 1955-) Frasier was even more arrogant on his own show than on Cheers, and therefore even more oblivious. His cop father was smarter than he was. Frasier was unaware of his brother’s great infatuation with a woman staying in Frasier’s home.

He just turned 70.

Bob Newhart Show or Newhart?

Emily Hartley, from The Bob Newhart Show (Suzanne Pleshette, 1937-2008), was very smart – a third-grade school teacher and later an assistant principal – sarcastic, and a good sounding board for her psychologist husband, Bob.

This season’s final Celebrity JEOPARDY! Final JEOPARDY clue: “In Memoriam 2024” category: “This comedy legend always credited his wife, Ginnie, for the idea behind what is still called one of the greatest finales in TV history.” The response is Bob Newhart. The classic ending of his Newhart show, which has its own Wikipedia page, can be seen here.

Det. Sgt. Arthur Dietrich, Barney Miller (Steve Landesberg, 1936-2010). Very intelligent, but also delivered his lines with a deadpan expression, monotone voice, and comedic timing.

From here: “Dietrich is very low-key and highly intelligent, having trained in both the medical and legal professions, and he has a vast knowledge of specialized topics. He can be counted on to define some esoteric concept quickly and clearly. “

Sue Ann Nivens, The Mary Tyler Moore Show (Betty White, 1922-2021) – she was the perky star of The Happy Homemaker on WJM, whose TV persona did not match the backbiting, snarky, sexually obsessed real Sue Ann.

Famously: “On The Golden Girls, debuting eight years later, White was cast as man-hungry Blanche Devereaux, with Rue McClanahan, the befuddled Vivian Harmon on Maude, cast as naïve Rose Nylund. The two actresses realized how similar their new roles were to their previous ones and, at the suggestion of veteran comedy director Jay Sandrich, approached the producers about switching roles. (White quotes Sandrich as saying, ‘If Betty plays another man-hungry neighborhood you-know-what, they’re going to equate it with Sue Ann and think it’s just a continuation of that.’)“

Amazon Prime perk is ending

free shipping for others

My first-world problem for today is that an Amazon Prime perk is ending. I got Amazon Prime a few years ago, primarily for the free shipping. Especially during the pandemic, getting a package, usually compact discs but occasionally books, brought me joy.

I had considered dropping it for political reasons, which I don’t need to discuss. Indeed, I made only one purchase on Amazon in 2025 for myself: a couple of computer mice (mice? meeses?).

However, I’ve been purchasing several items regularly for someone with a mobility problem, and it’s much easier to get them from one source than many. Also, the daughter has needed a few items.

“Amazon is ending a program that allows members of its Prime membership subscription program to share their free shipping benefits with people who don’t have the same primary address.”

Lots of “presents”

Also, “This doesn’t affect the ability to ship gifts to others or send orders to different addresses. It only ends the option for invitees to place their own orders without a Prime subscription while still enjoying free shipping.”

“Amazon is encouraging users who don’t live with the account holder to subscribe to their own membership at a discounted rate of $14.99 for one year. After that, it’s $14.99 per month or $139 annually. The offer starts Friday [September 5] and is valid until Dec. 31, 2025.” How kind.

Theoretically, I could order all these things and make them “gifts.” Still, frankly, there are so many items, some of which are out of stock, discontinued, or otherwise complicated, that I do not wish to add the inventory maintenance to my plate.

So, in the short term, the recipient will have their own account for the following year, which I’ll pay for. Then we’ll figure it out.

This is my understanding of the new Amazon process, which could be wrong. Feel free to correct me.