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The games my wife and I play

TULIP

The games my wife and I play are all on the New York Times platform. Spelling Bee is my wife’s game, and she has gotten two Queen Bees in the last month or so. This has nothing to do with Beyonce, BTW. It’s that she found every word in the puzzle.

But she has been so single-minded about the game that she has forgotten to finish her Wordle, which takes far less time. If she asks, I will help her with the Spelling Bee. But I’m not great at finding the pangram, using all seven words. One recent one we both missed was FACTOTUM, a word I used to know but have since faded from my brain.

Connections

My wife and I play together, and we’re pretty good at sussing out the purple, the most difficult. For instance, on New Year’s Eve, the purple was:

Starting with bodies of water: BAY LEAF, CHANNEL SURF, SEA BASS, SOUND BARRIER

It often is words that rhyme in a category. Perrier was really terrier. On December 29, it was the Car brand homophones: INFINITY, MINNIE, OPAL, OUTIE. But figuring the rest of the order was dodgy.

Happy New Year!: BALL DROP, CHAMPAGNE FLUTE, FIREWORKS, NOISEMAKER
Places where things disappear: BERMUDA TRIANGLE, BLACK HOLE, COUCH CUSHIONS, DRYER
Associated with Philadelphia: BROTHERLY LOVE, CHEESESTEAK, LIBERTY BELL, ROCKY

I figured that the disappearing stuff was Blue, the next hardest, and Philadelphia was easier. Nope. Philly was BLUE. At least the NYE clue was yellow, the easiest.

Wordle

First, best wishes to Nola, who had a 938-game streak but has not been able to play regularly due to medical issues. She’s been a big supporter of my streak.

My daughter was watching a YouTube review of a book titled A Five-Letter Word for Love by Amy James. The video, and at least a couple of the GoodReads print reviews, indicate that, despite having a 300-game win streak, the main character has NO idea how to play the game.

I usually play Wordle just after midnight. But if I’m tired, I play when I inevitably wake up in the middle of the night. Then I play Quordle, which I’m not nearly as successful at.

The great thing about Wordle is that I send my results to my Wordle buddy Matthew. I always start with AROSE. If I get a void, or just one yellow letter, I play TULIP….

Wordle 1,652 4/6

AROSE 200

TULIP 12

NATTY 6

BATCH

Even though TULIP was used in the last 50 turns

Wordle 1,629 2/6

AROSE 238

TULIP

If I have a green letter or more than one yellow letter, I use the letters in TULIP. If I have an S in the wrong place, I’ll almost always start with an S. There are a lot more S words than others, I believe. Also, I try to account for seasonal influences.

Wordle 1,651 3/6

AROSE 58

SLEET 4

SPEED

Sometimes, I go with my gut. GRASS is green, and I’m Green.

Wordle 1,642 2/6

AROSE 7

GRASS

I was thinking Scrooge

Wordle 1,638 2/6

AROSE 30

MISER

This felt most Christmasy, whatever THAT means.

Wordle 1,650 2/6

AROSE 13

PRISM

Sometimes, I screw up!

Wordle 1,654 4/6

AROSE 45

TRILL 1

DRUID muff!

FRUIT

Occasionally, it isn’t easy.

Wordle 1,643 5/6

AROSE 43

TULIP 9

RUNNY 3

RUMMY 2

RUGBY

Other times, it’s a gimme.

Wordle 1,635 2/6

AROSE 1

ERASE

One time, I decided to look for a word with an R and two Ys. But then I remembered the season.

Wordle 1,644 3/6

AROSE 43

TULIP 1

MYRRH

Wordle 1400

In the last 100 games, I’ve had 0 1s, 16(!) 2s, 38 3s, 37 4s, 9 5s, and 0 6s. That’s an average of 3.39. Overall, my average is 3.784. I’ve said before that if I got four every day, I’d be fine.

People online

Wheel of Fortune and JEOPARDY

I read so much political conversation that I need to examine other topics, only to discover that people online can be annoying there, too.

Let’s find some math stuff. There are charts about the number of squares, triangles, or rectangles; the scolds remind us that squares are rectangles. (How many squares do you see above? And if you get it wrong, I promise not to chastise you.)

Also, how do you solve these equations? You prove you do or do not understand the Order of Operations in Math (PEMDAS).

Example: How do you work out 3 + 6 × 2? Multiplication before Addition: First 6 × 2 = 12, then 3 + 12 = 15. Example: How do you work out (3 + 6) × 2 ?Parentheses first: First (3 + 6) = 9, then 9 × 2 = 18.

Of course it is valuable, but the arrogant and demeaning way those who get it wrong are treated – sometimes with personal attacks! – diminishes the joy.

The games

Let’s go to pages tied to the Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy. In those cases, people get agitated because the final puzzle or Final Jeopardy was either too hard—no one could get it—or so easy that anyone could get it.

On the last show of Season 41, July 25, 2025, the Final Jeopardy answer was, “According to one obituary, in 1935, he owned 13 magazines, eight radio stations, two movie companies, and $56 million in real estate.” The two challengers, Charlotte Cooper ($7,800 going into FJ) and Jonathan Hugendubler ($14,000 before FJ), wrote, “Who was [William Randolph] Hearst? His correct answer put Hugendubler in the lead by $1. The 16-day defending champion, Scott Ricardi, wrote, “Who was Howard Hughes?”

Some folks noted that they felt bad that Ricardi missed it, although he’ll be back for the Tournament of Champions. After all, going into the Final, Scott had 29 correct, zero incorrect responses. Jonathan had 13 correct, three incorrect, and Charlotte had 12 correct, one incorrect.

Others said, How could he not know that? It was” easy.” An article suggested that Scott “threw” the game because he didn’t want to be champion over the summer. What? Scott has denied tanking the game.

One person online said Hughes died in 1976, and the FJ answer said the subject died in 1935. Except that, and I admitted that the clue was strangely written, it did NOT say that. Hearst died in 1951, and some pedantic librarian, annoyed with this other person’s pedanticism, decided to correct him.

Show biz

This meant, “Oh, I have to get out of this.”

I came across a Facebook page about events in upstate New York. It mentioned that Cynthia Erivo, who had been scheduled to perform at the Saratoga Performing Arts Center on August 22, had cancelled her show for scheduling reasons and would be replaced by John Baptiste. A reasonable conversation would be about how to get refunds or whether the show will be rescheduled. But I found – and I’ve seen this elsewhere -the sheer number of people who wrote, “I don’t care.”

Also, a large contingent needed to comment on the length of her fingernails. But more than a few seemed to think she just lucked into a blockbuster movie, Wicked. She’d been in several movies, notably Harriet. She was a Tony winner almost a decade ago for The Color Purple. Well, whatever.

So it’s not just supporters of a particular political agenda who I find exhausting.

Penpals: Sunday Stealing

Mike Post

The Sunday Stealing prompt this week is Penpals, Part 1, which, for some reason, reminded me of Reasons To Be Cheerful, Part 3 by Ian Dury and The Blockheads.

1. What are your plans for March?

My birthday is this week, and my wife is taking me out to dinner. We’re meeting with our financial advisor. I’m seeing my cardiologist. We’re picking up our daughter from college and returning her a week later. I’m getting my teeth cleaned. We’re going to see a play. Plus the usual – choir rehearsal, church, ZOOM with my sisters, book reviews, and blogging.

2. Did you ever have or go to sleepovers as a kid?

Not that I can specifically recall. It’s possible.

3. Which books would you pick for a book binge?

Any number of the ones I’ve purchased but have not read. We Who Believe in Freedom- Alice Green. Caste – Isabel Wilkerson. The Mask Is Off – Dr. Mildred Smoth-Chang. I’ve got tons of them.

4. What features do you love most about your home?

The built-in bookcases in the room I am presently sitting in.

5. Favorite songs from tv, movies, and video games

I like story songs for TV themes, from The Beverly Hillbillies to Cheers. Mike Post created a lot of instrumental themes for shows I watched, such as The Rockford Files, Hill Street Blues, and Law and Order. I also liked the Earle Hagen themes such as The Dick Van Dyke Show and the Andy Griffith Show.

I have over 100 soundtracks, some from movies I’ve never seen. Often a song’s power comes from where it happens in the film; the first that came to mind was the title song from the movie Philadelphia by Neil Young, which plays near the end.

I have no idea about video game songs.

Games People Play

6. What group games do you like to play with others

Cards: pinochle, hearts, spades. Scrabble, Monopoly, Uno, Boggle, and probably others.

7. How often do you try something new?

Every day is something new.

8. What type of sushi is your favorite?

California rolls, I guess.

9. Do you prefer to relax or go on adventures during vacation?

I like to sightsee.

10. How do you prevent burnout?

Turn off my phone.

11. Which colors look best on you?

I look marvelous in everything, dahlink. Actually, I have no idea, but my wife often says, “That shirt looks nice on you,” and it can be a variety of shades.

12. Do you like brunch?

What’s not to like?

13. Trends you showed up late for

Just about everything. I am a late adapter to virtually every technological innovation. My first iPhone I got in 2020 or 2021. I seldom watch streaming services. My landline still exists.

14. What’s your favorite drink order?

My first drink was a Tom Collins. In general, I drink white wine if I’m consuming alcohol.

15. Which clothes or accessories make you feel most confident?

A hat keeps me warm in the winter and protects me from sunstroke the rest of the year.

Lydster: Boggling Boggle play

competitive

On our recent vacation in the Berkshires, we brought along the word game Boggle. I described it four years ago here.

We played twice in three days. The first time my wife won. She ALWAYS wins. It’s not that she knows more words as much as she can SEE more combinations. I’ve told her for years that, if luck allowed, she’d kill me on the TV game show Wheel of Fortune.

As I noted, a few years ago, we used to give our daughter an advantage. The parents wouldn’t count any of the three-letter words we found, only the longer ones. We have revoked that accommodation.

And still, she’d regularly beat me, coming in second to her mother. After coming second last time, she started studying the letters. I don’t know how this would help her, since the dice land randomly.

Yet, in the next game, she started with more than a 10-point lead, finding words that were obvious in retrospect, but which her parents just didn’t see. And ultimately, she won the game.

She’s Got Game

I’ve always tried to play games with her competitively at the point when she had a fair chance of beating me. Whether it be Connect Four or another game, she plays to win.

When we play the board/card game Sorry, her strategy hanging around the starting point, hoping for a back 4, and or two 10s that she could use as back 1s, has occasionally been adopted by her parents.

No hearts

But I’ve not yet gotten her to regularly play any of the card games I know. Sure, hearts, spades, pinochle, and the like require more than two players. But I still haven’t shown her the joy of cribbage.

I may try to teach her backgammon this summer. Since I’ve retired, I’ve become rusty, and playing on the tablet is not an adequate substitute.

It’s also true that if/when she goes off to college, this might put her in good stead. Do college kids still play board games and cards? How about Yahtzee online?

E is for entertainment for the whole family

In the 1980s, I ROCKED at Trivial Pursuit

Uno In November 2018, Slate came up with The 40 Greatest Family Games, entertainment for the whole family. There are five things games should be: the right length, fair, action-packed, helping you learn something, and encouraging spontaneity. “Not every good game follows all these commandments, but the best ones balance them well.”

I will only note the ones I have actually played.

Sorry! – wrote about its greatness here eight and a half years ago
Concentration – I’ve always been notoriously bad at this. By the time my daughter was eight, she could beat me. I used to watch a TV version with Hugh Downs as the host.
Uno – I am a harsh competitor. Even when she was much younger, if the Daughter didn’t say “Uno” when she played her penultimate card, I made her take two more. I also insisted she keep her cards above the table. Slate calls it Bloodthirsty, Thrilling, and Desperate
Air Hockey – when we’re at the timeshare, the daughter, nieces and I often play. Something visceral about it.

Apples to Apples – “asks players to decide which of a set of proposed nouns best fits that round’s designated adjective.” It’s often hilarious.
Boggle – My wife is MUCH better finding words than I.
Cribbage – I actually have a cribbage board and deck of cards both in my office and at home
Pictionary – I’m lousy at it because I cannot draw worth beans
Chess – I learned how the pieces move, but that is about it

Scrabble – I played this with my great aunt over 55 years ago. My college roommate painted me a Scrabble board. I’ve reviewed a book about Scrabble. I haven’t played in a while. No, I’ve seldom played Words with Friends online.
Scattergories, Stratego – I’ve played them but never owned them
Trivial Pursuit – in the 1980s, I ROCKED at Trivial Pursuit. Now, any 21st century pop culture question would ground me
Yahtzee – a dice game that I like because it requires decision-making and odds calculating

Slate also notes the 10 Worst Family Games

Candy Land – pretty lame, I thought, even as a child
Clue – I never “got” Clue
Hangman – boring
Life – I actually liked it as a kid, but quit by my teen years

Monopoly – I’ve played it enough that, at one time, I could have told you the price and rent of every property on the board. I suppose they’re right, though – “the most famous branded board game of all time can be made enjoyable — with the help of some aggressive house rules”
Operation – hated it from the start
Risk – never warmed to it
Tic-tac-toe – statistically boring

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