Lydster: I had never made pancakes

baking powder, NOT baking soda!

Until recently, I had never made pancakes before. Okay, that’s not true; I’ve made them quite often over the years, but almost always with a mix, either Bisquick or Jiffy.  In my bachelor days, I might even make enough batter for two or three meals and put the leftovers in the fridge.

But one Monday morning, my daughter decided she wanted pancakes for breakfast, which, of course, meant that I would make them. I am the only unemployed person in the household. Moreover, she required that I use… a recipe?

Specifically, this one from AllRecipes.com. It wasn’t difficult, but it was a bit annoying.  It started with, “I found this pancake recipe in my Grandma’s recipe book. Judging from the weathered look of this recipe card, this was a family favorite.” Sure, why not?

Then we get the prep time and the ingredients. But then it lists “How to Store and Reheat Pancakes,” followed by “Can You Save Pancake Batter?” I just want to make the food. “Can You Freeze Pancakes?” I just got up, and I’m already falling asleep again.

“Allrecipes Community Tips and Praise.” Whatever. I will note the first comment.  “This recipe is one to hand down to your grandkids,” raves… “Fluffy and delicious. Haven’t bought a box of pancake mix in months! Just add a bit of vanilla and poof! Magic.” I’ve been adding vanilla for years, ever since it was suggested on a Bisquick box. 

What I really, really want

Finally, the Ingredients with the actual amounts! And the Directions! It was the daughter’s suggestion, even in my Bisquick days, to mix the dry ingredients before adding the liquid ones. Adding salt was new to me, and I was very parsimonious with its use. But I’ve been trying to avoid adding salt to my food for years.

Oh, I came across another AllRecipes page: What’s the Difference Between Dry and Liquid Measurements? I never liked those metal dry measuring cups, though I understand how effective they are. So in this experiment I DID use two sets of measuring cups. (Another item to put in the dishwasher? The horror!)

I always have to be alert to add baking POWDER rather than baking SODA. About 30 years ago, I used the POWDER, and it was VILE. My daughter said I could substitute cooking oil for butter. Nah, although I had always used vegetable oil.

The verdict was that my wife and daughter liked them. I thought they were fine. If I were making it again, I’d probably bump up the milk quantity from a cup to 1 1/4 cups.

Not incidentally, we almost ALWAYS use real maple syrup. Because.

Sunday Stealing Is for Adults Only

Would I Lie To You

Welcome to Sunday Stealing. Here we will steal all types of questions from every corner of the blogosphere. Our promise to you is that we will work hard to find the most interesting and intelligent questions. Cheers to all of us thieves!

Back in 2007, Sparky Duck at Philly Transplant took a crack at this meme aimed at those of us of a certain age. Now it’s your turn.

The Grown Up Meme, for Adults Only

1. Do you have a college degree?

Yes, a Bachelor of Arts from SUNY New Paltz (1977), and a Masters of Library Science from UAlbany (1992).

2. What was the amount of your last electric bill?

I want to say $235; it’s autopay and I’m too lazy to check.

3. Do you have life insurance?

Yes, which I took out some. My wife knows where the papers are, which is good.

4. Do you check your cholesterol on (at least) an annual basis?

Yes, just before my annual physical in October. My primary care physician is retiring at the end of 2026, alas. But I’m meeting my new one, who is also my wife’s PCP, in January. 

5. Have you ever attended a high school reunion?

Yes. Mine for my 10th, 35th, 50th, and 55th. The class before mine’s 20th. My sister Leslie’s 45th and 50th; I know a lot of the “kids” from her class because they are the youngr sibs of some of my classmates. 

6. Do you have a will or estate plan?

Yes, but only in the past decade or so, which was grossly irresponsible, given the fact that we had a minor child at the time.

I want my MTV

7. Do you remember when MTV played music videos?

Not only that, it shaped my musical tastes in the 1980s and early 1990s. In graduate school, I wrote a paper about how Michael Jackson made MTV what it was, and vice versa. From here: 

“The former president of CBS Records, Walter Yetnikoff, remembered with scorn that MTV would not play “Billie Jean”  or “Beat It” because it billed itself as a rock station.

“Looking back on that era, a 1991 Los Angeles Times article quoted MTV founder and then-CEO Robert Pittman as saying the channel’s format didn’t lend itself to other musical styles, including R&B and country. And Pittman accused his critics of attempting to impose their musical pluralism on the channel’s die-hard rock fans.

“Yetnikoff said he threatened to pull videos of his other artists unless MTV played Jackson’s videos.” Those other artists included Springsteen, Billy Joel, et al. 

I was a sucker for videos like “Would I Lie to You” by Eurythmics, “Sledgehammer” by Peter Gabriel, and a bunch of songs from the book 60 Songs That Explain the ’90s. And, of course, I Wanna Be A Lifeguard by Albany’s own Blotto; the video appeared on MTV’s very first day, August 1, 1981, but I didn’t get my MTV for another year, because my cable carrier nixed it. 

8. Is there a bottle of wine in your refrigerator?

No, but there’s a wine rack next to the refrigerator. Is there wine in it, or does it just have liquor? I’d have to go downstairs to see. 

9. Have you been divorced? 

Yes.

10. When you were 16, did you play music on vinyl, cassette, or CDs? 

Vinyl. And I still have most of them, except for the ones purloined in the Great LP Theft of 1972. 

Hot Country Singles and Tracks for 1996

Did I Shave My Legs For This?

What does Hot Country Singles and Tracks for 1996 mean? “On December 5, 1992, Billboard started compiling the Country singles chart strictly on the number of detections registered by each song,” based on airplay gathered by Nielsen Broadcast Data Systems.

The result is fewer one-week #1s, which is a good thing in my mind.

My Maria – Brooks & Dunn, three weeks at #1

It Matters To Me – Faith Hill, three weeks at#1

No News – Lonestar, three weeks at #1

Time Marches On – Tracy Lawrence, three weeks at #1

Carried Away – George Strait, three weeks at #1. My GS album, Ten Strait Hits, predates this by five years.

Like The Rain – Clint Black, three weeks at #1

Little Bitty – Alan Jackson, three weeks at #1

(If you’re not in it for love) I’m Outta Here! –  Shania Twain, two weeks at #1

Bigger Than The Beatles – Joe Diffie, two weeks at #1. There’s a humorous  Fab Four reference in the last minute of the video.

You Can Feel Bad – Patti Loveless, two weeks at #1. My only Loveless album is 1991’s Up Against My Heart

You Win My Love – Shania Twain, two weeks at #1

Blue Clear Sky – George Strait, two weeks at #1

Daddy’s Money – Ricochet, two weeks at #1

She Never Lets It Go To Her Heart – Tim McGraw, two weeks at #1

So Much For Pretending – Bryan White, two weeks at #1

Believe Me Baby (I lied) – Trisha Yearwood, two weeks at #1

Strawberry Wine – Deana Carter, two weeks at #1. I own her 1996 debut album, Did I Shave My Legs For This?, which includes this song.

One Way Ticket (because I can) -LeAnn Rimes, two weeks at #1

The rest of the songs are number one for a single week

Rebecca Lynn – Brian White

Wild Angels – Martina McBride

I’ll Try – Alan Jackson

The Beaches of Cheyenne – Garth Brooks, which I own on the 1995 album Fresh Horses

To Be Loved By You – Wynonna

No One Needs To Know– Shania Twain

Don’t Let Me Get Started – Rhett Akins

Guys Do It All The Time – Mindy McCready. A tough life.

Living In A Moment – Ty Herndon

Lonely Too Long – Patty Loveless

Fort Worth on my mind

top 10

I’ve had Fort Worth on my mind lately, though I’ve never been to the city in Texas. Two or three years ago, I was at a trivia contest at WAMC’s auditorium, the Linda. 

The final question said the state with the most Top 15 US cities by population had the 15th-largest city. We had to name the city. So which state would it have been? Some in our group said California, but I was positive it was Texas. My problem is that I didn’t know the rankings. I knew Houston was a Top 5 city and assumed Dallas was up there. Austin, where a friend lives, has been growing like crazy. I think we picked San Antonio, actually bigger than Dallas.   

The answer was Fort Worth. Fort Worth? It never crossed my mind. I thought it was just a Dallas suburb. According to Wikipedia, the 2025 estimate is that it is now a Top 10 city in the US, bypassing Austin.

A recent NYT Connections had the answer as FORTH, but my second guess was WORTH because of that experience.

I haven’t been to Texas since about 1995, when I was at a work conference in Galveston, which I enjoyed tremendously.

Texas wants you anyway

In the New York Times, the piece ‘They Picked the Wrong Candidate’: 12 Texas Swing Voters on the Paxton-Talarico Race asked some questions I found interesting. 

“All of you have lived in Texas for 10 or more years. What has changed the most about Texas in the time that you have lived in the state?” One replied: “The initial joy of living here over the last decade has definitely deteriorated. I don’t love living here anymore. I don’t like the weather. It’s like a desert seven months of the year. Initially, I thought I could deal with it. Now it’s like I’ve got to hibernate for a few months of the year.”

Moderator: “And has that changed in the last 10 years? Is that different?” Another replied: “It feels like the summers are hotter and the winters are colder. And the cities have grown so much. When I was a kid, San Antonio to Houston seemed so far away. Now you’re at the edge of one and into the other within about two hours.”

I found this insight useful. The cliché is correct: everything’s bigger in the Lone Star State.

To me, Fort Worth’s population explosion is matched or exceeded by other locales in the state. Of the U.S. cities with the greatest growth in 2025 compared with 2020 by percentage, four of the top 10 (Georgetown, New Braunfels, Conroe, and Lewisville) and eight of the top 20 were in Texas.  

Music, book review, et al.

October 27 | Book Review | The Spirit of Philadelphia by Chris Gibson.  Reviewer:  Roger Green

Tuesday at 2 pm at the 161 Washington Avenue branch of the Albany (NY) Public Library
October 27 | Book Review | The Spirit of Philadelphia: A Call to Recover Founding Principles by Chris Gibson.  Reviewer:  Roger Green, MLS, business librarian retired from the NY Small Business Development Center. (I JUST finished this book…)
November 3 | Book Review | Science Be Dammed: How Ignoring Inconvenient Science Drained the Colorado River by Eric Kuhn and John Fleck.  Reviewer: Jonathan Skinner, PhD, retired statistician & amateur classicist.
November 10 |Book Review | The Odyssey by Homer and others, including Christopher Nolan.  Reviewer: Hans-Friedrich O. Mueller, PhD, professor of Classics, Union College.
November 17| Book Review | This Earthly Globe: A Venetian Geographer and the Quest to Map the World by Andrea di Robilant.  Reviewer: Dylan Carey, MS, avid cyclist, hiker, & a railroad history buff.
November 24 | Author Talk | Steve Trimm, peace activist, discusses & reads from his book, Walking Wounded: Men’s Lives during and since the Vietnam War.
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New location this month 
Stories and Spoken Word Poetry Open Mic Night, sponsored by Upper Madison. Tuesday, October 27. The doors open at 6:30, and the show starts at 7.
Your $5 minimum donation helps cover the venue rental.
Location: Cindy B’s Coffee, a lovely new small business located in the Events and Athletic Center at the former Saint Rose Campus! 420 Western Ave in Albany.
Just $5 to attend.
Bring a 5-minute story or spoken word piece to perform. Storytellers are encouraged to share a story in the style of The Moth – personal stories with no notes. Not in the mood to tell a personal story… how about a folktale?
Poets: read or perform their work without reading.
Don’t feel like performing? Be part of the audience – support the artists & this new small business!
Not up for a late night? Neither are we – you’ll be on your way to your next destination by 8:30!
SPECIAL THIS MONTH: audience members will have the chance to win tickets to Tellabration! 2026 on November 22nd at the GE Theatre at Proctors!
Key details:

We will have prompts available at the door that might inspire an impromptu story!
Expect adult themes and language.
The October Open Mic Night is brought to our community with support from the Story Circle of the Capital District.
SPREAD THE WORD AND BRING A FRIEND, IF YOU CAN.