Movie: Materialists

Melanie and Don’s kid

The saga of seeing the movie Materialists began in late June. I went to see Sinners at the Madison Theatre, but my wife opted to see something presumably less intense, which started and ended a few minutes after my choice. I then went to vote at the nearby Primary Day voting site and came back.

When the theater door for Materialists opened, I waited more than five minutes before calling out to her. Yes, she was in there, and she came out, talking to two women, one of whom she vaguely had met before, still talking about the significance of the film they had just seen.

A week or so later, my wife and I went to the Spectrum 8 Theater in Albany. She was willing to see Materialists again, which is quite unusual. I saw and liked it, but I was having a dreadful time figuring out how to write about it. A part of it may have to do with personal biography.

Lucy (Dakota Johnson) is an excellent matchmaker at an upscale company. She is practically a human dating app. Nine of her matches led couples to the altar. She views relationships like transactions and uses that strategy to calm a skittish bride.

But she is taken aback when the perfect 10 unicorn of a guy, Harry (Pedro Pascal), whom she meets at a wedding she had put together, is interested in her. He seems to check all the boxes and would be the obvious choice.

Lucy even takes him to an Off-Off-Broadway production, where her ex John (Chris Evans) performs. He is the antithesis of a rich guy, working catering jobs between auditions while riding around in his barely roadworthy vehicle.

Not a rom-com

I came across an IMDb review: Materialists was not what I expected.

“It’s been marketed like a rom-com – but honestly? If you’re heading in expecting laughs, you’ll be disappointed. What you get instead is a sharp, quietly melancholic study on modern love, dating, and loneliness in the big city. It’s not so much about romance as it is about emotional bankruptcy – the way ambition, money, and appearances slowly chip away at real connection.” Melancholy, yeah.

So I understand why some folks, looking for a sweet rom-com, might be disappointed. I’ve read that Johnson’s performance was flat, but I think it was dead on. The “real tension[ is] in her. What does she actually want? Love, comfort, validation? Or just a life that looks good on paper?”

This is also why Lucy was so tone deaf when dealing with the bad date one of her clients experienced.

The funniest part of the movie was the clips of the clients noting their attributes and what they were looking for. (I was going to give an example, but it doesn’t read as funny.)

The Rotten Tomatoes reviews were 80% positive with critics and 67% with audiences. All I can say is that I believed these people, especially Lucy. Dakota Johnson, by the way, was the response to a recent JEOPARDY clue. HOLLYWOOD HODGEPODGE $400: She’s the actress seen here with mom Melanie Griffith and grandmother Tippi Hedren.

Oh, I liked the cave people, too, who appeared in the beginning and then the end credits.

Music composed by Francis Johnson

Lafayette and Queen Victoria?

In an online article, I read “Tyler Diaz… played music composed by Charles Francis Johnson, University of Pennsylvania, in 1824 for Lafayette’s visit. This was an exceptional honor for a Black composer.” A Black American composer in the first quarter of the 19th century?

The reference was in Peter Feinman’s Institute of History, Archaeology, and Education piece titled July 3, 1825/July 3, 2025: Lafayette’s ‘Naturalizes’ Americans at Federal Hall.

There is a Wikipedia page: “Francis ‘Frank’ Johnson (June 16, 1792 – April 6, 1844)…  wrote more than two hundred compositions of various styles—operatic airs, Ethiopian minstrel songs, patriotic marches, ballads, cotillions, quadrilles, quicksteps and other dances. Only manuscripts and piano transcriptions survive today.

“Johnson was the first African American composer to have his works published as sheet music. He was also the first African American to give public concerts and the first to participate in racially integrated concerts in the United States. He led the first American musical ensemble to present concerts abroad, and he introduced the promenade concert style to America.”

Victoria!

I don’t know this guy at all! More info from here:

“Johnson’s band toured here and abroad, and, in 1837, played before Queen Victoria at Buckingham Palace. The young queen was so impressed that she gave Johnson a silver bugle as a memento.

“Besides entertaining white audiences abroad, Johnson performed at African American churches in Philadelphia, Boston, and New York. In 1841, he organized a performance of Haydn’s Creation at the First African Presbyterian Church in Philadelphia.

“Francis Johnson died in 1844 in Philadelphia at 52. During his funeral march, hundreds of mourners, including his brass band, followed his casket, on which his silver bugle was placed.”

Six-minute video by Krystal Thomas

U Penn bio

The innovations of a forgotten genius who laid the groundwork for the nation’s signature music (Smithsonian)

Some music:

A Soundtrack to Antebellum Black Philadelphia

A Collection Of New Cotillions (1818) – Donald Lee III, piano

Honour To The Brave: General Lafayette’s Grand March

Johnson’s March

Dirge – the last three: Performed by The Chestnut Brass Company and Friends. Diane Monroe, Violin. Tamara Brooks, Conductor. 

Maybe I can intrigue one of my blogger buddies, who knows way more about classical music than I, to find out more about Francis Johnson. 

Top 50 films of the 21st Century

a bad day?

Here’s the Top 50 films of the 21st Century, per the New York Times poll of 500 creatives in cinema. I’m ignoring that 2000 is in the 20th century, not the 21st.  

If I saw it and wrote about it, I will link to that post. I will note movies I have NOT seen this way:

DK—I don’t know this film and have never heard of it before, except if it was listed in previous lists.

WS- I’m familiar with the film and would have seen it, but it fell through the cracks, usually during the Oscar rush to see movies in December through February.

FF – There was a fear factor that it would be too violent or otherwise upsetting to watch.

50 Up, Pete Docter, 2009. It’s good, though the first minutes always gets to me.

49 Before Sunset, Richard Linklater, 2004. WS – I need to see ALL of the Before pics!

48 The Lives of Others, Florian Henckel von Donnersmarck, 2007. WS: Whom can you trust in circa-1984 East Berlin?

47 Almost Famous, Cameron Crowe, 2000: enjoyed this a lot, actually. A music film is in my emotional wheelhouse.

46 Roma, Alfonso Cuarón, 2018. “Cuaron is a bit too close to the material.”

45 Moneyball, Bennett Miller, 2011. I liked it, but would I have liked it if I did not like baseball? One of the two I saw at home.

44 Once Upon a Time … in Hollywood, Quentin Tarantino, 2019. WS/FF. Love the Hollywood angle, but the Sharon Tate murder?

43 Oldboy, Park Chan-wook, 2005. DK

42 The Master, Paul Thomas Anderson, 2012. WS

41 Amélie, Jean-Pierre Jeunet, 2001. I adored this film.

40 Yi Yi, Edward Yang, 2000. DK

Not Claudia Johnson

39 Lady Bird, Greta Gerwig, 2017

38 Portrait of a Lady on Fire, Céline Sciamma, 2019. DK

37 Call Me by Your Name, Luca Guadagnino, 2017. WS

36 A Serious Man, Ethan Coen and Joel Coen, 2009. WS

35 A Prophet, Jacques Audiard, 2010. DK

34 Wall-E, Andrew Stanton, 2008. I liked it more in the latter half.

33 A Separation, Asghar Farhadi, 2011. WS

32 Bridesmaids, Paul Feig, 2011

31 The Departed, Martin Scorsese, 2006. When my kid was little, I tried to avoid violence in films. Maybe I’d see it now.

30 Lost in Translation, Sofia Coppola, 2003. Sometimes, when almost everyone I trust likes a film but I don’t, I think maybe I was tired or having a bad day.

29 Arrival, Denis Villeneuve, 2016.

28 The Dark Knight, Christopher Nolan, 2008. I think I just wasn’t into superheroes at the time. WS

27 Adaptation, Spike Jonze, 2002. As I recall, I liked much of it but hated the end.

French jurisprudence

26 Anatomy of a Fall, Justine Triet, 2023. Intriguing; I liked it.

25 Phantom Thread, Paul Thomas Anderson, 2017. It’s fine, though a little slow.

24 Her, Spike Jonze, 2013. Is this movie prescient? I’ve seen the mainstream news about “romances” people have with their AI constructs.

23 Boyhood, Richard Linklater, 2014. Very good, but impressive as all get out in making a film over a dozen years with the same core cast!

22 The Grand Budapest Hotel, Wes Anderson, 2014. My favorite Wes Anderson film

21 The Royal Tenenbaums, Wes Anderson, 2001. My least favorite Wes Anderson film

20 The Wolf of Wall Street, Martin Scorsese, 2013. We were considering it, though my parents-in-law HATED it. It’s also very long, and ultimately, I never saw it.

19 Zodiac, David Fincher, 2007. FF/WS

18 Y tu mamá también, Alfonso Cuarón, 2002. I recall enjoying it.

17 Brokeback Mountain, Ang Lee, 2005. I enjoyed it a great deal, though I never wrote about it.

16 Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, Ang Lee, 2000. I recall it fondly.

15 City of God, Fernando Meirelles, 2003. FF. “A teenager forces a younger teenager to kill an even younger child. The victim cowers inside a fenced patio that resembles a playpen. Nearby sobs another child, who looks about 5; he’s been shot in the foot — to send a message, but also for fun.” Yeah, there’s also dancing and joy, but…

QT

14 Inglourious Basterds, Quentin Tarantino, 2009. FF

13 Children of Men, Alfonso Cuarón, 2006. WS

12 The Zone Of Interest, Jonathan Glazer, 2023. Shows well the banality of evil.

11 Mad Max: Fury Road, George Miller, 2015. Just not my thing.

10 The Social Network, David Fincher, 2010. Surprisingly effective.

9 Spirited Away, Hayao Miyazaki, 2002. Wonderful

8 Get Out, Jordan Peele, 2017. FF. Maybe I’ll see it eventually.

7 Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Michel Gondry, 2004. I watched this on VHS tape, I think, and saw only half of it before going to bed. Got up early and watched the rest. And STILL loved it. I relate to stuff about memory, and whether one can/should block them out. 

6 No Country for Old Men, Ethan Coen and Joel Coen, 2007. FF

5 Moonlight, Barry Jenkins, 2016. Effective coming-of-age triptych.

4 In the Mood for Love, Wong Kar-Wai, 2001. DK

3 There Will Be Blood, Paul Thomas Anderson, 2007. FF. I saw one (Ratatouille) of the seven 2007 movies on this list.

2 Mulholland Drive, David Lynch, 2001. WS

1 Parasite, Bong Joon Ho, 2019. You can’t always get rid of the stench of poverty.

My wife was reading my blog

a whoa moment

Much to my surprise, my wife was reading my blog. She mentioned to me in last week of June, she perused the post about our daughter coming back from South Africa, and also the next one.

Then, on Saturday morning, June 28th, I heard music from her office.  Usually, if she has any audio entertainment, it’s either talk from NPR or classical music, but this was distinctly not that. No, she was listening to links from my post about the #1 country songs in 1955. This is fascinating because I’ve been writing for two decades, and that hasn’t always been the case.

I remember the days when we would visit my friend Fred Hembeck and his wife and child. Fred and I would talk about things we had in our blogs. My wife is trying to understand what we were talking about. 

FGH

In fact, I wrote about it here in 2008: Fred, “our wives and I also had a philosophical conversation about blogging. My wife chastised me for saying that she should look at my blog, rather than me having to explain what I had written. I noted that it isn’t just the information in the blog that I was trying to convey, but the style and manner in which I said it.” Ultimately, I resigned myself to making inadequate bullet points if she asked.

She intellectually knew that I always wrote about her on her birthday and our anniversary, and occasionally on Mother’s Day, though our anniversary and Mother’s Day are very close together. 

Now she’s reading the blog, at least sometimes.  I’d taken it as a matter of faith that she’s not reading it, so the change is a whoa moment.

Anyway, today is her birthday. She’s taken off work for the summer, though I know at least a few work-related calls. This means that all things she can’t get done during the rest of the year are going on. My wife had to go through that stuff after her mother moved from one retirement facility to another, smaller location. 

Things are already better. She’s cleared off the dining room table of the material that had been there since we filed our taxes in April. (Why didn’t I put it away? Because our filing systems are mutually confounding.) She probably has more projects to do than time to do them in the next four weeks, but she’ll use the time well—she likes morning walks—and I’m sure I will be enlisted to work on many of those projects.

Happy birthday, dear. I love you.

July rambling: the Sin of Condemnation

The 1934 National Firearms Act unconstitutional?

The Stones in Our Hands: Misreading John 8 and the Sin of Condemnation

‘Motherhood Should Come With a Warning Label’

CBS News’ John Dickerson Takes on Paramount Settlement: “Can You Hold Power to Account After Paying It Millions?” (especially from 36:45) Dan Rather calls it “a Sell-Out to Extortion.” Steve Kroft tells Jon Stewart that it was a “shakedown.”

“The regime is gutting scientific research into climate and atmospheric science for political reasons; at the very time, we need a much better understanding of it,” said one environmentalist. “This is so reckless and dangerous.”

2024 report published by Texas A&M University found that extreme rainfall events in the state have already increased by about 10 percent due to climate change. That number could double in the coming decades, reaching a 20 percent increase compared to a century ago.

Deep cuts erode the foundations of the US public health system, end progress, and threaten worse to come.

Kelly has links, including the sad closing of the Ontario Science Centre, which my family LOVED when we went to Toronto in 2011.

VeggieTales creator Phil Vischer released a viral video about race in America in 2020, just after George Floyd was killed. If anything, it’s more relevant now.

Meet the Moon Mammoths, the baseball mascot masterminded by John Oliver’s show

Now I Know: The Bovine Unity of Milk and Glue? and Brunch: Because We Like the Party and Why the National Animal of Scotland is… Wait, Really? and This Airport SUX

Leading to the semiquincentennial

Full interview: Ken Burns on “Face the Nation” about his new film on the American Revolution and the importance of telling the story of American history.

July 4th in the Face of Fascism: Moral resources for Americans who know we’ve been betrayed – Our Moral Moment w/ Bishop William Barber & Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove

“If fireworks ring hollow, you’re not alone. Light a candle instead.”

HCR: The MAGA Ideology That Brought Us to This Moment. It’s Our Job to Make Sure People Know the Truth

I am the man on Fifth Avenue.

Americans Have Never Been Less Proud of Their Country

“While the lighthouse shining the way is admittedly hard to make out through the cruel fog that envelopes us, it is out there, sturdy upon the shore, and still blazing brightly. We must trust that we will rediscover its guiding power and, together, steer this ship safely home. We’ll do it together, and in our strong and welcome company, we will find the courage and conviction we need.” – Jay Kuo

Purblind bunny boiler

Heather Cox Richardson: “Within hours of [FOTUS] signing the [OBUB] into law, Gun Owners Of America and… other pro-gun organizations filed a lawsuit claiming the measure makes the 1934 National Firearms Act (NFA) unconstitutional. That law regulated machine guns and short-barrel guns by imposing a tax on them and making owners register their weapons. The Supreme Court upheld that law as a tax law. The budget reconciliation bill ended those taxes and thus, the plaintiffs’ claim, the constitutional justification for the law.”

10 Charts to Understand the 900-Page Budget Bill

GOP budget bill would give top 1% over $1 trillion in tax breaks, analysis finds. It will steal from the poor and give to the rich.

FOTUS/DOGE foreign aid cuts could cause 14 million deaths by 2030, study warns

The trolling is coming from inside the White House

Cold as ICE

A surge in ICE detentions of those with no criminal record, despite stated priorities. Still, “as a result of the agency’s stonewalling, the Guardian, alongside the Reporters Committee for Freedom of the Press, last week filed a lawsuit against ICE for unlawfully withholding documents that represent a clear and overwhelming matter of public interest.” 

FOTUS ramps up deportation spectacle with new stunts and ICE funding

He only has ICE for you. And: ICE Agents Deserve No Privacy. Attempts by the public to keep tabs on ICE are provoking predictable and pathetic responses from the government.

 

MUSIC

Lou Harrison’s Pacifika Rondo

Coverville 1539: Carly Simon Cover Story and 1540: The Blondie Cover Story III

Mockingbird – Weavers Gallery

Chorale and Shaker Dance by John Zdechlik

Another Day of Sun, the opening number from La La Land.

Sit Down, John from 1776

Weird Al Medley (A CAPELLA)  White & Nerdy, Party in the CIA, Like A Surgeon, Tacky, Eat It – Jared Halley

Sussudio – Phil Collins

The Longest Time – Boyz II Men and Billy Joel

Ramblin' with Roger
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