The Time Traveler Meme

I’m now a Presbyterian, not a Methodist.

I found this particular Sunday Stealing rather interesting.

Emily’s Rules:

1. Depending on your age, go back 10, 15, 20, or even more years.
2. Tell us how many years back you have traveled and why.
3. Pretend you have met yourself during that era, and tell us where you are.
4. You only have one “date” with this former self.
5. Answer these questions.

Okay, as we start, what year is it and how old are you?

My sense is that younger people are picking smaller numbers, so I’ll randomly pick 25 years ago, which would be November 1985; I’m 32. As it turns out, that’d be the year in which the movie Back to the Future is set. We probably met at a comic book show.

1 . Would your younger self (YYS, from here) recognize you when you first meet?

Not sure. My skin, specifically my face, is much lighter because of the vitiligo. Given the fact that sometimes I don’t recognize myself now, quite possibly not.

2. Would YYS be surprised to discover what you are doing job-wise?

Well, no. He’d say, “THAT’S what you should have gone to grad school for in the first place. What WERE you thinking with that Public Administration detour?”

3. What piece of fashion advice would you give YYS?

Actually, none. He didn’t care about fashion, and neither do I.

4. What do you think YYS is most going to want to know?

Would I ever find love? Would I get married? Would I ever have children? Would I ever WANT children? And if I DID have children, would I be any good as a father?

5. How would you answer YYS’s question?

Yes. Yes. Yes. Surprisingly, yes. I guess so.

6. What would probably be the best thing to tell YYS?

Well, assuming it wasn’t things like which baseball teams to bet on in 1986 – “The Mets over the Red Sox in the World Series. Really.” – I suppose I’d counsel more patience in affairs of the heart.

7. What is something that you probably wouldn’t tell YYS?

About my father’s death.

8. What do you think will most surprise YYS about you?

That I’m a father. And that I own a house; I was always a renter. And that I’ve written SOMETHING for public consumption – on this blog, as it turns out, every day for 5.5 years; he didn’t think I had that much discipline, and frankly, neither did I, even 5.5 years ago. And that I’m now a Presbyterian, not a Methodist. Oh, all sorts of things.

9. What do you think will least surprise YYS?

That I’m a librarian.

10. At this point in your life, would YYS like to run into “you” from the future?

Yes, but he’d be surprised how much more patient I am now.
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And speaking of time travel, read my recent posts about going to the Peter and Paul concert, post-Mary; and the Beatles, Again? – don’t forget LENNONYC on American Masters tonight on PBS.

The Presuppose You’re Living in New England Meme

My sense of melancholy. Oh, that’s not was meant?


Presuppose? Albany, NY IS in EXTREMELY western New England, at the junction of I-87 and I-90. From Sunday Stealing, again.

1. Have you turned the heat on in your house yet this fall?

It kicked in the middle of October. Surprisingly cold for that time of year.

2. Do you allow your pets on the furniture?

Well, IF we had a pet, it’d be a cat. Yes, on the sofa; no, on the dining room table. The Wife and I have actually discussed the possibility recently. Shhh! Don’t tell the Daughter yet; we need to ask her at the right time.

3. What were your final words for September?

Where did I leave my October bus pass?

4. What are your first words for October?

Oh, there it is.

5. Do you think you’ve ever seen a ghost?

It’s remotely possible if I believed in such things, which I tend not to.

6. What is the one color that represents this time of year?

Clearly, orange, which represents both Halloween and Thanksgiving, not to mention falling leaves.

7. Which of your senses do you think is most sensitive this time of year?

My sense of melancholy. Oh, that’s not what was meant? My sense of seeing the increasingly barren trees.

8. What is your favorite thing to do at the county fair?

Buying homemade food products. I’m also a sucker for farmers’ markets.

9. What do you like when you have a cold?

Ginger ale, hot tea, Vitamin C drops, to do nothing.

10. Are you willing to spend over $100 for a piece of winter clothing, like boots or a coat?

My hands get all clammy and sweaty simultaneously just at the thought. I HATE buying clothes, aside from hats, gloves, underwear, and socks.

12. What do you have too much of in your kitchen?

Mugs. For all occasions. But I don’t see us giving them up, as they represent particular events.

13. What gripes do you have about this time of year?

The cold, the need for gloves and especially a knit hat; a cap is insufficient for my balding pate.

14. Other than yourself, are you responsible for getting anyone ready in the morning?

The Daughter, and she can take FOREVER.

15. When was the last time you cleaned your gutters?

Well, it will be done this year, but not by me.

16. So, it’s after Labor Day. Will you still be wearing white?

This is a fashion thing, isn’t it? Have I mentioned that I think that fashion, by and large, is quite stupid? So, yes, and I HAVE!

17. What shows are you most looking forward to this Fall?

Well, I’m interested in watching The Good Wife, Grey’s Anatomy, 30 Rock, and JEOPARDY! I’m constantly three weeks behind. There are people who complain about reruns and pre-emptions of TV shows; I am NOT one of those people.

18. What three things have you just not gotten around to from the summer, but probably should do before snow flies?

The leaves need raking. I should probably mow the lawn one last time. And the summer furniture needs to go into the basement. Also, while I’M not doing it, the roof needs replacing.
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I mentioned the Mockingbird reading that took place this Saturday past. Chuck Miller took pictures of all the participants.

Green Day meme

His point is that we should do more than tolerate our differences, but that we should embrace them.

There’s this meme called Rock ‘n Roll Fridays. “…our little ‘twist’ is that each week we will pick a singer, band, era, or category and pick thirteen of their lyrics. Each of our questions will be based on the lyrics.”

Back in August, they did one for Green Day.

1. 21 GUNS:
“Do you know what’s worth fighting for?
When it’s not worth dying for?
Does it take your breath away and you feel yourself suffocating?”

What was the last cause/reason that you signed a petition or joined in a protest?

Actually, I sign a fair number of petitions. In the past couple months, I’ve signed them for political candidates and for a variety of peace, justice and ecological causes. I’m not keeping track. Possibly the last protest was when the evil Fred Phelps came to Albany, but it could have more recently than that; probably was, actually. Oh, it was a gay marriage rally this spring.

2. AMERICAN IDIOT:
“Don’t want to be an American idiot
One nation controlled by the media.
Information age of hysteria
It’s going out to idiot America”

Where is the best place for trusted information about world events?

It’d be cliched to say Jon Stewart on The Daily Show, but I do tend to appreciate it when he puts politicians’ and FOX News’ feet to the fire. That said, I get lots of news from lots of sources, from differing points of view, and winnow it out.

3. GOOD RIDDANCE:
“Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road
Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go
So make the best of this test and don’t ask why.
It’s not a question but a lesson learned in time”…

What was the last lesson or message about life you learned?

I’m not sure I’m having “aha” big life lessons lately, as much as mini-lessons regularly, too numerous, or subtle, to mention or even notice until much later. OK, here’s one: if I eat after 7 p.m., it interferes with my sleep. Not the LAST lesson, but that is something.

4. WELCOME TO PARADISE:
“Dear Mother, Can you hear me whining?
It’s been 3 weeks since that I left your home.
This sudden fear has left me trembling
Cause now it seems that I am out here on my own
And I’m feeling so alone”…

Where was the place you went to live when you first moved out of your parents/guardians home?

My college town of New Paltz, NY. During my tenure there, my parents moved to Charlotte, NC.

5. MINORITY:
“I want to be the minority
I don’t need your authority
Down with the moral majority
Cause I want to be the minority”…

When have you ever felt like an outsider?

I feel like an outsider surprisingly often, actually, even in the midst of a party or other event.

6. WHEN I COME AROUND:
“Oh I heard it all before
So don’t knock down my door
I’m a loser the user
So I don’t need no accuser
To try and slag me down because I know you’re right”…

What was the last bad thing you discovered about yourself?

I don’t know that I’ve learned any NEW bad things, just the same old bad things, notably impatience.

7. MISERY:
“Mr. Whirly had a catastrophic incident
He fell into the city by the bay
He liquidated his estate
Now he sleeps upon the Haight
Panhandling misery”…

If you have ever been poor, what lesson, skill-set, or experience came from it?

Mostly it’s patience for those who are currently poor. To the point of the lyric, I don’t always give money to panhandlers, but I usually don’t act as though I didn’t hear them, as though they weren’t there.

8. 80:
“Sometimes I wonder if I should be left alone
And lock myself up in a padded room
I’d sit and spew my guts out in the open air
Cuz no one wants to hear a drunken fool”…

How do you relax after a stressful day?

Really depends. Sometimes, I go to bed early, or read, or blog, or watch TV, or have a glass of wine.

9. REDUNDANT:
“We’re livin in a repetition
Content in the same old stick again
Now the routine’s turnin to a contention
Like a production line goin over and over and over roller coaster”…

Do you do something over and over the same way, even though you know there is a better/simpler way to do it?

Well, no and yes. I’m sure there are better ways to use certain technologies – cellphone, digital camera for two – that would probably make my life easier in investing the time learning how. Don’t know if it’s simpler in the short term, getting past the learning curve, but it’d definitely be better.

10. ANDROID:
“It makes me wonder when I grow to be that age
Will I be walking down the street begging for your spare change
Or will I grow that old? Will I still be around?
The way I carry on, I’ll end up 6 feet underground and waste away”…

What age do you believe is OLD and why?

85, mostly because it’s 20 years past 65, the traditional retirement age.

11. WAITING:
“I’ve been waiting a lifetime for this moment to come
I’m destined for anything at all”…

What is your biggest dream in life (so far)?

I was reading some LOC, and the letter writer was complaining about the word “tolerance”, used in the context that we should be more tolerant of gays, Muslims, et al. His point is that we should do more than tolerate our differences, but that we should embrace them. While I don’t disagree, the cultural milieu seems to be sometimes SO intolerant and even vile, mere tolerance these days would be perfectly acceptable.

Wait a minute: was I supposed to say “end hunger” or “world peace”, and I’m reducing my dream to a Rodney King quote? Certainly, it cannot be something that’s already happened, for what would be the point of the pursuit of life otherwise? OK, that my daughter grows up to be smart and well and happy, not necessarily in that order.

12. POPROCKS AND COKE:
“I don’t care is you don’t mind
I’ll be there, not far behind
I will dare, keep in mind, I’ll be there for you”…

What is the biggest favor you ever did for family or for a friend?

Lent money that I really couldn’t afford to lend.

13. BASKET CASE:
“Yea, I went to a shrink to analyze my dreams,
She says it’s lack of sex that’s bringin’ me down…”

What would you like more of in your life?

Free time, by myself. And massage – a lot more massage.

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