Lydster: New York City twice

Urban Stomp

Museum of the City of New York

My daughter went to New York City twice in two weeks. The background: my mother-in-law ostensibly has a timeshare plan, but my wife has been paying for it. Because she’s been busy working, we haven’t utilized the service sufficiently. Fortunately, one of my BILs is taking it over on October 1.

My daughter went to the City in mid-July with her bestie, Kay, and stayed at the location on 45th Street in Manhattan. They attended a very much Off-Off-Broadway play directed by my niece Alexa.

The highlight was going to the Museum of the City of New York, 1220 Fifth Avenue at 103rd Street. I will admit that I had never heard of it. They enjoyed Above Ground: Art from the Martin Wong Graffiti Collection (through October 5, 2025), Urban Stomp: Dreams & Defiance on the Dance Floor (through February 22, 2026), and the ongoing Songs of New York: 100 Years of Imagining the City Through Music. My daughter rightly assumes I will love that latter exhibit.

Part Two

The final week of July, my wife and daughter went to New York. My wife had never been to the Manhattan property. I’d been there thrice, once with my sister Leslie and twice with my daughter, and my daughter and I insisted that she go up to the 33rd floor at night.

My wife and daughter went to the Guggenheim Museum at 1071 Fifth Ave., designed by Frank Lloyd Wright, part of a UNESCO World Heritage Site. The daughter was particularly taken by the Rashid Johnson: A Poem for Deep Thinkers exhibit.

The Whitney Museum of American Art, 99 Gansevoort Street, is “located in Manhattan’s Meatpacking District—steps away from the Hudson River Greenway and the West Side Highway.” Unfortunately, the highlight of their visit, the Amy Sherald: American Sublime exhibit, ended on August 10; it had been featured on CBS News.  You’ll likely recognize her famous portrait of Michelle Obama if you don’t know her name. But the collection has over 26,000 works representing 6000 artists.

Our daughter, who relished the return trip, took my wife to the Museum of the City of New York. On Wednesday morning, they had brunch with cousin/niece Alexa before returning home.

I should note that they went down to NYC the same day that some guy drove from Las Vegas to Manhattan and shot several people in a Manhattan office, killing four. Although I knew my family was safe – they were at least ten blocks away – it was oddly unsettling.

The day after their return, there was flooding in NYC, including the subway near Grand Central Station, where they had been just the day before. Their timing was remarkably good.

Trying to write a FantaCo book

the gestalt

As I have mentioned to some of you, I’m trying to write a FantaCo book, that is, a book about the comic book store/publisher/convention operator/mail-order entity FantaCo at 21 Central Avenue in Albany, which operated from 1978 to 1998 and still exists in some electronic version.

I worked there officially from May 1980 to November 1988. Frankly, I’ve written almost nothing, though I have done some interviews. I have a pretty good idea of how it’s laying out in terms of chronological facts.

What I haven’t quite grasped is why FantaCo was that special place. When working there, you try to do the best job possible to make the experience pleasant. How the customers perceive that is a harder thing to define.

I did get a couple of insights from some interviews I’ve done. One is that FantaCo was part of a larger Lark Street/lower Central Ave/Metroland scene. How does one explain what a scene feels like? The other thing I’ve heard is that we were responsive to what our customers wanted without making any conscious plan.

FantaCo was a fascinating place that started primarily as a comic book store. It never stopped being one, but got much more into film items. The publishing got more into the horror genre.

Decade One

The book will focus on the first ten years, 1978-1988. I need more information about the first two years before I officially worked there, from August 1978 until May 1980. After that, I recorded most of the stuff in a series of diaries. I’ve also written some of it via interviews and incorporated the diaries into this blog.

Once upon a time, I gathered information for a Raoul Vezina Wikipedia page. Though it never happened, I still have some unique items.

I have scads of photos. To my surprise, I identified most of the individuals and the date.

Again, I’m less worried about the narrative while I was there, although I’d be interested if you have some stories to share. I’m focused on the feelings/atmosphere—if you will pardon the expression, the gestalt.

How would you explain FantaCo’s vibe? Please get in touch with me by leaving a comment on this post, by email, or by Facebook/Messenger. I’d love to hear your insights on this topic. Thank you.

Sunday Stealing — Rise and Shine!

“Snap, what a happy sound.”

Welcome to Sunday Stealing. Here we will steal all types of questions from every corner of the blogosphere. Our promise to you is that we will work hard to find the most interesting and intelligent questions. Cheers to all of us thieves!

This week we once again turn to husband-and-wife bloggers, Jeff and Charli, who are getting our week started with a meme inspired by one they stole from Jennine.

Morning Meme: Rise and Shine!

1) What do you typically have for breakfast?

Usually, I get up and make oatmeal while my wife is showering. She comes down and we eat. The trick is that each of us has our own milk; I have 1%, my wife has almond milk, and if our daughter joins us, she has oat milk, though she is often on a different sleep schedule. It’s sometimes difficult to keep track of because when I buy the almond milk from one store, the packaging is of a specific color scheme, and when my wife buys it from another store, it’s totally different. I only remember that almond milk is for my wife because her middle initial is A.

Cereal killer

2) What was your favorite breakfast cereal when you were a kid?

I liked several pre-sweetened cereals, such as Froot Loops, Sugar Smacks, which they now call Honey Smacks, and Alpha Bits. But we also had Shredded Wheat, Wheaties (Breakfast of Champions), Cheerios, and Rice Krispies, which had the best theme song. I wrote here in 2006: “Personally, I like to mix my non-presweetened cereals. They must differ by grain and by shape.” In 2012, I noted my favorite cereals, but ate very few of them by then.  I own Kellogg’s cereal bowls.

3) Orange juice, tomato juice, or cranberry juice?

Actually, my favorite thing is a mix of half orange juice and half cranberry juice. It makes the cranberry juice less tart and the orange juice less ordinary. I blend a lot of foods.

4) What time is your alarm clock set for?

I don’t use an alarm clock. That’s the whole idea behind being retired. Unfortunately, my wife sometimes uses an alarm clock.. It can be set for as early as six or as late as seven. Usually, I get up when she does. Sometimes, after she goes to work, I go back to bed.

Morning Has Broken

5) Do you have any tips for preventing stress and making the morning go more smoothly?

The morning goes most smoothly when I wake up before my wife does. I post my blog to Facebook and BlueSky and then start writing something. If my wife goes for a walk, I’ll work on a blog post. But if she’s in a hurry and must shower right away, I’ll make breakfast. Then she’ll go to work, and I’ll finish writing the blog post.

Writing in the morning is much better than any other time of the day, and it makes my morning much better when I feel like I can check something off my list. I also like to read the paper first thing in the morning, although sometimes they pile up, and I don’t get to them until three or four days later. It doesn’t take long to read. I also tend to empty the dishwasher in the morning while waiting for the oatmeal water to boil, and then reload the dishwasher after breakfast.

Thank you for playing! Please come back next week.

Hot Soul Singles of 1975, part 1

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?

Here are the Hot Soul Singles of 1975. Or about half of them. Like the other charts, there are a LOT of them in 1975, 42 to be precise. And the terminology of said charts changed frequently.

Fight The Power Part 1 – The Isley Brothers,  three weeks at #1. And here’s Parts 1 and 2. At the end of every year, I pick a song or songs that best represent the year. This is a contender for 2025

Fire – Ohio Players,  two weeks at #1 RB, #1 pop, gold record. And here’s the album cut; I think my sister Leslie had the LP. I love the parallel symmetry.

Shining Star – Earth, Wind, and Fire – two weeks at #1 RB, #1 pop, gold record. The first EWF song I loved

Let’s Do It Again – The Staple Singers, two weeks at #1 RB, #1 pop, gold record, from the great STAX label.

L-O-V-E  (Love) –  Al Green, two weeks at #1

Get Down, Get Down (Get On The Floor) – Joe Simon,  two weeks at #1

How Long (Betcha’ Got a Chick On The Side) – The Pointer Sisters, two weeks at #1. Album cut. The Sisters had hits long before the 1980s.

This Will Be (An Everlasting Love) – Natalie Cole, two weeks at #1

#1 for a single week

Kung Fu Fighting – Carl Douglas, gold record. He wasn’t exactly a one-hit wonder; his follow-up was Dance the Kung Fu, #8 on the soul charts. No, I don’t remember it.

Lady Marmalade – LaBelle, gold record, #1 pop. I could listen to this song on near-endless repeat. And it’s partly in French!

The Hustle – Van McCoy, gold record, #1 pop. This song, to me, helped define the decade.

Get Down Tonight – KC and The Sunshine Band, gold record. And the longer version

Fly, Robin, Fly – Silver Convention, gold record. Three weeks at #1 pop.

That’s The Way I Like It – KC and The Sunshine Band, gold record. The longer version

Love Roller Coaster – Ohio Players, gold record. “Say what?” Album cut

You’re My First, The Last, My Everything – Barry White

Happy People – the Temptations

I Belong To You – Love Unlimited

Shame, Shame, Shame – Shirley and Company

 

More soon.

This post is Chuck Miller’s fault

I am a meteorologist?

Ooops, the WRONG Chuck Miller!

This post is Chuck Miller’s fault. On May 22, my old blogger buddy from my Times Union blog days wrote Thanks for stating the obvious, Google…

He noted, “My blog is 100% written by me. Chuck Miller. A living, breathing, flesh and blood human. I am not a synthezoid, I am not a Replicant, I am not from Rossum’s Universal Robots, no no no no no.” I’ve met Chuck more than once. I’m at least 99.44% sure that that he’s real. 
“That being said, I felt like checking out Google’s AI search engine and asking it what it thought my blog was about.”
At least, Chuck knows what AI IS, unlike the Education Secretary Linda McMahon, who confused AI with A1, as in the steak sauce.
This seemed like a fun idea for a lazy blogger.
 what is rogerogreen.com
“Roger O’Green is likely referring to Roger O. Green, an American meteorologist. Rogerogreen.com might be his personal website. If it’s his site, it probably showcases his professional background, weather forecasting services, or related work. Would you like more information on Roger O. Green or his work?”
I DID NOT KNOW I was a meteorologist. This was very excited to know! Wait. I’m NOT a meteorologist. Am I?
The real me
So I tried
What is https://rogerogreen.com about
https://rogerogreen.com appears to be a personal blog titled “Ramblin’ with Roger.” It’s written by Roger Green, a librarian who’s passionate about music, theater, books, and life experiences. The blog features various posts about:
  • Theater and Arts: Roger shares his thoughts on the Tony Awards, discussing nominated productions and reflecting on past performances he’s seen. He also writes about the impact of funding cuts on arts organizations.
  • Personal Reflections: Roger shares stories about his late father-in-law, Richard, and the significance of a painting he inherited, “The Bookworm” by Carl Spitzweg.
  • Family and Memories: He writes about his sister Marcia, sharing photos and anecdotes from their childhood and family experiences.
  • Local News and Events: Roger discusses the closure of Trinity United Methodist Church in Albany, where he used to attend and participate in various activities.
  • Politics and Social Issues: He touches on current events, such as James Comey’s seashells and the controversy surrounding them.
Overall, “Ramblin’ with Roger” seems to be a space where Roger Green shares his diverse interests, thoughts, and experiences¹.
So that was what I wrote that week. Not great insight, but whatevs.
Ramblin' with Roger
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