The Lydster: the Vietnamese restaurant

Theory #1: she did not want her parents to have a good time!

Just before Christmas 2017, our library director took his library staff out to lunch. It’s been a tradition that it’d be some non-standard fate, and this time we settled on Van’s Vietnamese restaurant, on Central Avenue in Albany.

It was fine, and the servings were generous. I got two more lunches out of the leftovers. But the decor was non-distinct.

But I recall the PREVIOUS time I was at Van’s, more than a decade ago. It was located on Madison Avenue. It was going to be the first time my wife and I were going to actually go out to dinner at a nice, sit-down restaurant. It had a nifty tile floor, as I recall.

Of course, we had to take the Daughter in that carry seat that fits into the back seat of the car. All the way to the restaurant, she was fine. Happy, even.

However, within five minutes of being seated, she began to cry. No, that’s not precisely correct. She began to WAIL. The screaming bouncing off the floor made the sound even worse.

None of the usual tricks – the binky to suck on, singing to her, holding her -worked. After about five minutes, not wanting to torture the other diners, the waitstaff, or ourselves any further, we departed, leaving a small tip for the two partially-drunk glasses of water.

We put her in the car, went to some drive-through place for some burgers and went home. The Daughter was fine, happy even. So what happened?

Theory #1: she did not want her parents to have a good time! Theory #2: there was something about the smell of the food that disagreed with her. Or maybe it was just the sound of people walking on that floor that bothered her ears.

Emotionally, I’d been leaning towards Theory #1, but years of hindsight suggests the second theory is more plausible.

Urgent Request for Donations for Ellazar Williams

Thank you in advance for your compassion and generosity towards this young man.

Ellazar WilliamsBlessings from Rev. Renee Hollinshed, MS – revrenee@focuschurches.net
FOCUS Interim Executive Director

Recently you may have seen the news story of Ellazar Williams, a 19-year-old man who became paralyzed after being shot in the back by Albany (NY) police. Read more HERE or HERE.

Ellazar is in desperate need of supplies and funds. If you are able to purchase or provide any of the items on the following list, please bring them to any one of these locations (call for available drop-off times) by Monday, December 3rd at Noon:

Items needed for ELLAZAR WILLIAMS:
Full size bed sheets
Full size plastic bed cover
Full size blankets/comforter
Towels
Washcloths
Clorox bleach
Lemon Scented ammonia
Pine sol
Ajax/comet
Mr. Bubbles
Bathtub cleaner scouring pads
Ajax or gain dish soap
Gain laundry detergent
Dove body wash
Dove bar soap
Shampoos and conditioner (any kind)
Body cream/lotion
Lots of paper towels
Toilet paper

– FOCUS Churches of Albany, 275 State St., Albany NY 12210 (518) 443-0460

– First Church in Albany, 110 North Pearl St., Albany NY 12201 (518) 463-4449

– Macedonia Baptist Church, 26 Wilson Ave., Albany NY 12205 (518) 489-4370

– Walls Temple AME Zion Church, 27 Delaware St., Albany NY 12202 (518) 449-1447

– Fifth Ave. AME Zion Church, 189 5th Ave., Troy, NY 12180 (518) 326-1556

– Unity Church, 21 King Ave., Albany, NY 12206 (518) 453-3603

Learn more about Ellazar and donate money directly here.

Thank you in advance for your compassion and generosity towards this young man.

Outrage and the “war on Christians”

“To be clear, this case had nothing to do with ‘persecution…'”

outrageEd Stetzer, Executive Director, Billy Graham Center has written a book released in the fall of 2018 called ‘Christians in an Age of Outrage’. I haven’t read it and don’t know if I will.

But he penned a piece about WHY he wrote it, and it makes some sense.

“In Fall 2017, it seemed like the world was on fire. Everywhere I looked, I saw anger — anger towards Christians, anger by Christians, anger by Christians towards Christians. People whom I respected as voices of patience and forbearance were being ignored or sucked into the hostility.

“I want to help Christians engage an outraged world with discernment and wisdom, seeing the world as the mission field to which God has called us.”

Stetzer wrote in the introduction of the book: “What do we do when the anger becomes too much? When our righteous indignation at injustice morphs into something completely different? How do we know when righteous anger has made the turn into unbridled outrage?”

I should note that, very recently, I became aware of the aftermath of a bout of Christian versus Christian outrage. One was actually more irate, the other one more wounded, both ironically coming from a place of love for each other.

The former, I’m sure, believes that there has been a war on Christians in America. I can imagine that person would applaud former Attorney General Jeff Sessions’ “religious liberty memo”. The 20 guidelines include the notion that employers are ‘entitled’ to hire only those whose ‘religious beliefs and conduct are consistent with their employers.’

The other would see the state trying the codify Christianity, creating what I too would consider a violation of church and state.

I’ve been thinking about this in part because of a story you’ve probably heard about. A guy named John Chau who “was killed by indigenous people with bows and arrows after visiting the island of North Sentinel in India to convert people to his religion,” that being evangelical Christianity.

The group International Christian Concern, “a nonprofit that aims to draw attention toward Christians suffering throughout the world,” wants the locals to be charged with murder.” Now there are places in the world, including India, where it can be dangerous to be a Christian.

But as Patheos notes: “Not only does this group call what happened ‘murder,’ ignoring the fact that they aren’t bound by our laws and were acting out of self-defense, but they go even further by suggesting they can be tried in our courts. These remote villagers have had no contact with the outside world, and it is illegal to travel there because it’s dangerous for visitors and residents.”

I believe that when an arrow pierced his waterproof Bible on an earlier trip, he truly believed God would protect him from harm. I’m suggesting ICC is engaging in unjustified outrage, beyond offering condolences to his friends and family. Chau’s action was neither heroic or admirable but potentially dangerous to those he wanted to “convert.”

“To be clear, this case had nothing to do with ‘persecution…’ It’s well known that the Sentinelese people are hostile toward all outsiders. In 2006, two Indian fishermen were also killed while illegally traveling to the island. In other words, he wasn’t killed because he was a Christian; he was killed because he traveled to a prohibited island and endangered the locals…

“What better day than Thanksgiving to threaten the lives of indigenous people. This is how genocides start.”

BTW, on that list of the 50 countries where Christians ARE most persecuted, the United States does not appear. In the USA, I’m much more concerned about the potential loss of freedom of the nonreligious and those practicing non-Christian religions.

Not incidentally, a new bill wouldn’t ‘literally’ ban Bible sales in California.

Music throwback: You Sexy Thing

You Sexy Thing was produced by Mickie Most, who I associate with Herman’s Hermits.

Hot Chocolate band
Photo by J. van Houten/REX Shutterstock (97236w)
Hot Chocolate – Errol Brown, center
I kept hearing this song You Sexy Thing on the TV. It was in a commercial, for what I did not know because I don’t watch commercials. It turns out it was plugging LG’s V40 ThinQ camera thingy, zombies not included.

It was really bugging me since I knew the song but could not remember the artist. The British group Hot Chocolate had a hit in the UK in 1975 (#2) and in the US in 1976 (#3). The song was featured in films such as The Full Monty (1997), which I saw.

I have over 2000 CDs, LPs, singles and cassettes, still, and I’m fairly sure I have never owned You Sexy Thing in any format. But I DO have a couple other Hot Chocolate songs.

Give Peace a Chance, on the Come and Get It – The Best of Apple Records compilation, is a reggae version the Plastic Ono Band song. “Front man Errol Brown was told he needed permission [for the band to release its iteration]. He was contacted by Apple, discovered that [John] Lennon liked his version, and the group was subsequently signed to Apple Records. The link was short-lived as the Beatles were starting to break up.”

Brother Louie is a song about an interracial relationship, “which featured a guest spoken vocal from Alexis Korner.” I have the Hot Chocolate version on a compilation album called Goodnight Saigon. American audiences may know the song by the Brooklyn, NY-based band Stories.

You Sexy Thing was written by Errol Brown, who died in 2015, and produced by Mickie Most, who I most associated with Herman’s Hermits.

LISTEN TO:
Give Peace A Chance – Hot Chocolate (1970) here or here
Give Peace a Chance – Plastic Ono Band here (#14 in 1969, US)

Brother Louie – Hot Chocolate here or here (#7 in 1973, UK)
Brother Louie – Stories here (#1 for two weeks in 1973, US)

You Sexy Thing – Hot Chocolate here or here

Movie review: A Star Is Born (2018)

Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper were not the first actors attached to this project over the years.

A Star Is BornI saw A Star Is Born (2018) without a lot of preconceptions. I never saw the 1976 version with Barbra Streisand and Kris Kristofferson. And I’d all but forgotten the existence of the 1954 iteration with Judy Garland and James Mason. Both were mentioned in the credits. According to the IMBD, the 1937 take with Janet Gaynor and Fredric March, which I was totally unfamiliar with, is NOT credited.

The current film was really solid from the beginning when we first meet Ally (Lady Gaga). She is a shy performer who lives with her loving, though blowhard, father Lorenzo (Andrew Dice Clay).

By chance, she meets Jackson (Bradley Cooper), a superstar singer and guitar player. The movie, from the beginning until when Ally finally goes on the big stage, I love.

After that, A Star Is Born is pretty solid, though there are probably a couple scenes the director (Bradley Cooper) or one of the writers (including Cooper) might have trimmed. Still, not bad for a first-time director. Lady Gaga is excellent; expect an Oscar nod. Cooper is a very good singer in the country-rock genre.

They weren’t the first stars attached to this project over the years.

Clay, a comedian I didn’t like in the day, I thought was quite fine. And Sam Elliot is always great; here he plays Jack’s protective older brother Bobby.

But a technical glitch at the Spectrum Theatre in Albany diminished the experience. It wasn’t the quality of the filmmaking, it was the quality of the film. It stuttered – think of a compact disc that is stuck – at least six times during the previews.

It happened at least five times during the movie itself, usually not in critical points, although there was an important scene near the end which was negatively affected.

It stuttered so often during the closing credits that I, a huge credits fan, left after the 12th interruption. I know others had already complained, but we went to the concession stand to add our voices. We were told the theater thought it was only on the preview section, not the film itself.

Also, they didn’t want to disappoint viewers by canceling the showing. Guess what: We WERE disappointed that they DIDN’T cancel. I also went online to complain, and to the Landmark Theatre’s credit, they mailed me coupons good for two movie tickets and two small bags of popcorn.

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