A dozen years

She also has considerable assets of her own. She manages money well. She’s not a religious zealot, but she has a moral center that I trust.

Carol and I have been married 12 years. Not a tremendously long time, but longer than any two other relationships I’ve ever had, so that’s something.

I submit that of course, it’s partly that she is a very good woman. But it’s also the case that I’ve probably learned better relationship skills, probably due to trial and error.

It’s not that the little stuff – you know, discussions of where to store the garbage cans, or her reading my blog in draft form, or me regularly having to clear the kitchen counter of (usually her) non-cooking/non-food stuff – doesn’t bug me. It’s that it just bugs me considerably less than it might have 20 or 30 years ago. Have I mellowed? MaybeProbably.

Still, she also has considerable assets of her own. She manages money well. She’s not a religious zealot, but she has a moral center that I trust. Also, and I’m afraid I’ve been a bad influence with this, she’s not nearly as believing of the things that people in authority say as she was when I first met her almost 19 years ago.

So happy anniversary, honey.

 

Author: Roger

I'm a librarian. I hear music, even when it's not being played. I used to work at a comic book store, and it still informs my life. I won once on JEOPARDY! - ditto.

4 thoughts on “A dozen years”

  1. Lovely Roger – yes marriage is a funny old thing! We’ll be coming up to 23 years in a few weeks. Jon always jokes he would have been due out of prison now if he had committed a murder! I know he doesn’t mean it! (Fingers crossed!) Enjoy! Dx

  2. Hey there Roger, 12 years of happy marriage is not anything to sneeze at. Congratulations to you both, and I hope to get to meet Carol sometime soon.

  3. You & Carol seem to be a very good match. Happy Anniversary, dhude!

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